There is a different dynamic between actors in porn, and escorts and their clients: namely, they are both working, and thus the balance of trust/power is far more equal. Sorry to say, but I think most of us (unless we knew a client EXTREMELY well) would be hesitant to let some random dude pound us in the ass with a dildo the size of King Kong's dick.

Not only that, but with some of the extreme / gonzo anal that can go on, there's a very real chance of serious injury - Taryn Thomas, Amee Donovan.  Several retired stars talk of having to take pain meds prior to these scenes to get through them.

Re: You do realize porn isn't real life, right?

No shit, eh?  Remy, you rock.