This is exactly the type of thred that that huminises both sides of this hobby, when some parts of the review text tend to leave our encounters sounding so mechanical.
So, a friend (not a close friend, but a friend) of mine passed away unexpectedly while on a business trip. He's had some chronic health issues that seem to have been well controlled for a few years, but he was found dead in his hotel room, died in his sleep. So... The other day the police from the city where he was staying call his wife, and say they are curious if she might now anything about some phone calls. A short call to a burner phone was made from his hotel room phone at 2am, and then a call to a taxi company was made at 4am. She doesn't know about my secret, and most likely doesn't know about his either, so I didn't let on that I knew EXACTLY what was going on... I am hoping that if they follow up with the cab company and are able to track the passenger down, that they have the grace to just let it go and not talk to her about it.
Over the years (coming up on 20!) that I've been around this, I have met a few friends through the hobby, including a few that are still here on TER after all this time. But only once have I actually found that an existing close friend of mine was in the hobby. This whole episode made me wonder...
-Is he someone who was on TER and I just never knew that's who he was?
-How many friends do I have that hobby and I have no idea?
-How many people here on TER are people I actually know in real life?
Nothing really to reply to, just thinking out loud. Life is short, and there are some absolutely amazing women in this town to spend a few hours of it with. Some of the experiences I have had in the hobby, I have truly treasured. I hope the couple of hours my friend spent on his last night were as great as some of the times I have had.
I know of a similar event that happened some years ago. There was a gent with whom I was not associated with, nor did was he aware of my hobby, however I knew about his.
I bet that this kind of thing happens more often than we realize.
And umm, no I don't know you personally, although we met a time or two, many years ago.
It is a small world.
I happened to be checking out provider ads some time ago, and whom do I observe, that has an ad ? it was a niece of mine.
I kept my mouth shut, but eventually, my sibling found out that his daughter was providing.
He took it with a grain of salt, as she is quite a black sheep of his children.
Boy I wish I could tell you a story or two about her, but that would reveal to much about her, and me. So we will leave it at that. LOL
Over the years (coming up on 20!) that I've been around this, I have met a few friends through the hobby, including a few that are still here on TER after all this time. But only once have I actually found that an existing close friend of mine was in the hobby. This whole episode made me wonder...
-Is he someone who was on TER and I just never knew that's who he was?
-How many friends do I have that hobby and I have no idea?
-How many people here on TER are people I actually know in real life?
Nothing really to reply to, just thinking out loud. Life is short, and there are some absolutely amazing women in this town to spend a few hours of it with. Some of the experiences I have had in the hobby, I have truly treasured. I hope the couple of hours my friend spent on his last night were as great as some of the times I have had.
How many of my colleagues sitting at this boring meeting with me hobby or escort or did so at one point? Would someone who knows me IRL but not as a hobbyist and also knows me through TER be able to connect those two personas? Sometimes the world can be a small place after all
Some years ago a young woman was shot and killed by a man she was trying to break up with who then gone on to kill himself (how I wish he had just offed himself first). The next day I get a call from a friend of mine, a fellow hobbyist, who tells me the woman was a certain escort we both knew. I went back and read all the details of the story I could find and it was definitely her. I had been seeing her quite often lately as I had found her to be a delightful companion. And in a moment she was gone forever. Some people had put up a little, temporary shrine to her where she had died and I went and visited that and left a little memento. Wished I could have gone to the funeral but for obvious reasons that would have been a bad idea. But from time to time I still think of her and miss her.
few years ago a middle aged gentlemen was killed in a car accident. His wife said she had no idea why he would of been driving in that area or what he had been doing. I knew exactly what he was doing and thankfully she never did figure it out.
that have had a guy email them and through screening find out it's someone they know in civie life.
Most have opted to decline the appt but some have followed through and had a great time.
Sorry that your friend passed but at least he did so AFTER a bit of fun!!
One of the favorite customers at my friend's nail salon is actually a FBSM provider. My friend thinks she works in the shipping department of a company. I took one look at her and knew she did something else. It was several months later that I booked an appt with a BP provider and it was her! Made the session very awkward at first, but the menu had extra pages once she knew who I was and I swore secrecy.
life is real, things happen. don't let fear and paranoia rule the day. if your situation is that complicated, find another hobby. you are the master of only your own destiny. be safe, be smart. mbs
Not that I disagree with you, nor am I insinuating that you are suggesting that I should have booked with my niece, she is very hot and attractive ! just to be Clear, No I could not do that, as it is to close to home, and just a bit to out there, at least for me.
No doubt, I am a bit of a risk taker, and that is just a part of my personality, but I also know to
weigh my actions, against the possible consequences or outcome.
An example, I don't make parachute jumps without a functioning parachute, I don't repel down
sheer cliffs, without a good strong rope ! LOL
Other than that, Carry on folks, have Fun But stay Safe, so that you can experience life and all that it has to offer, on each and every day that it allows you to live.
A small post note, There was a very beautiful provider, a Red head. with whom I had seen once, but had talked to extensively, It is a long story, but at the time, she would call or email me, and express herself emotionally, and so on. She was very intelligent, and beautiful, and was in a place where changes were taking place.
Well she reached out to me on IM one evening, while I was on my computer, and I missed the prompt, the next day, I found out that she had took her life.
While I had felt that she was depressed, and had urged of her to open up to those close to her, such as family members, she did not follow through.
I wish then that I had been in a better position, to respond to her need, but because of the hobby
and her need to keep things under wraps, I was limited with what I could do.
It was just a very sad situation.
that was the point of my post. life has consequences, sorry for the loss of a friend. at times it's hard to separate our emotions from hobby and civi-life. mbs
nobody... If you're talking about who I am thinking of, I was seeing her on a very regular basis too...
This is exactly the type of thred that that huminises both sides of this hobby, when some parts of the review text tend to leave our encounters sounding so mechanical.
See ladies who are a "tad" older than I so the risk of a chance meeting in real life is minimized greatly. Living in a big metropolis has its advantages.