Very long time "lurker" here.

Of course not asking for any specifics whatsoever, but got to wondering if providers also have their own ATF's relative to the people they see. If so, why is that person a favorite and what thoughts run through your mind as you wait fom them to show up?

Just curious, and will now retreat back into lurker-dom - ha! Hope this question isn't too out in left field.

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They are my ATF's for many reasons.  Some, but not all, are listed below.
1. They make me think.  
2. They are on time and never NCNS and/or cancel with little or no notice.
3. They have a sense of humor and/or understand and appreciate my sense of humor.
4. They are clean.
5. They NEVER discuss money, nor do they try to negotiate rates, nor do they ask to be grandfathered...it is rude to ask or expect it.
6.  They are creative and passionate, in and out of bed.
7.  They are giving lovers.
8.  They appreciate women and show me this when I am with them.
9.  They appreciate ME, as a woman, as a lover, as a person.
Most importantly,  10. They are respectful of me and my boundaries.

I imagine my ATF men-friends appreciate me for some of the very same reasons.

What am I thinking when I wait for one of my ATF's.....

Yay!!!!!!!!    This is going to be great!   I can't hardly wait!!   OMG, Imma' gonna' get it gooooooodddddddddddddd!  

That pretty much covers it!

I hold myself to high personal standards and I really hope for mutual respect. The same reasons Belinda listed above and:

1. There's gotta be a 'connection'
2. I enjoy 'outgoing' personalities
3. Self-pride in body & appearance - great hygiene etc.
4. Needs to 'understand' my busy life and limited availability
5. Must be down to earth & share laughs about everyday stuff
6. Open-mindedness
7. Not bargain with the donation rate

I had a provider cancell a client because of the "gross" factor.
I have to beleive that you gals go through gents that are "less than desirable" and you may sometimes "go" for the better gents when it comes to services!
Just a thought...........

I am thinking " I am finally going to have some great., body sweating, trembling, satisfying sex!!"

Ya baby

I love it when the man gets into it as much as I am.  I have one of my regulars all we have to do is start kissing and caressing and it is such a HOTT time with him.

....sure the ones you allow to keep coming back you like but we definitely do have some atf visitors.  One I shamelessly admit as an atf friend was a former client who was a chef & used to be an IT guy. I told him he'd be the perfect husband (not mine of course...weird)  because he can cook FOR ME & fix my laptop FOR FREE lol. And he was hilarious. Not the most attractive man but nothing is more sexier than an amazing sense of humor.