I was reminiscing earlier today on how time flies by so fast. This month is my two year escorting anniversary and I can’t believe it. I was looking at old photos in certain hotels and memories of some of my favorite experiences with gentlemen friends came up. I thought about some of the things I would have changed in my hobby experience like eating way too much room service food! And then things I would have kept the same…like hot and steamy s-e-….of course. And as much as I’ve wondered what it would be like to provide full-time in another city, I wouldn’t change being a Minneapolis escort if I could go back, as the men here are generally good people. Lastly, I am grateful for being blessed enough to have never met any psycho crazy weirdos and for also actually taking the plunge to become a companion, as it has really allowed for me to do many things in life that I may not have had the opportunity to do otherwise.

I also reminisced on how much discussion we used to have on this board. Aaah...the memories.

So my question for you is:

If you could go back on your hobby experience so far, what would you change and keep the same (aside from spending time with pretty young things!)? If you wouldn’t change anything, what are you most grateful for from your particular experience? Is it simply that you found the hobby or perhaps you met an ATF that changed your perspective on intimate relationships, etc?

I’d love to hear your comments.

Xoxo.

I am most grateful for the mentorship provided through the TER discussion boards and reviews. Had it not been for TER it would have taken me years and dozens of mistakes to get to a point where I am now. The open sharing of providers and hobbyist alike really shorten the learning curve!

I am also quite grateful for the opportunity to meet so many interesting and beautiful women. Everyone I have met has been so genuine and they each have their own special story.

My only regret: That I didn't start sooner!

Alcohol infused whipped cream!

1. If I could go back to the start, I might not have started at all... or I might have started earlier.

2. I have learned over time to feel comfortable telling my chosen companions what I really need to make our time together special. I should have done that a long time ago.

3. There have been a few times when it would have been better to head for the hills rather than through the door.  

4. I've tried a few too many times to go for "bargains." I got what I paid for.

5. I, too, wish I would have not gotten so stressed out during the demise of MFP.

6. I don't think I would have tried to confine Renity to her apartment. But I am grateful for the many splendid hours I spent with her there.

7. I am thankful for all the wondrous women who graciously share their favors with me. Yes, of course, I love the frolicking festivities. But there's so much more. At your best, ladies, you offer acceptance and understanding, respite and relaxation, and for the time we share together a feeling of intimacy. At my best, I hope I convey how very much appreciated you are for who you are and what you share.

For what I would have done differently, I would have spent less time in strip clubs and gotten on to seeing escorts faster.  But I wouldn't want to have completely skipped the club experience; had some great experiences in them.  Also, there are some girls I would have rather not seen and others I would have liked to have seen or seen a lot more of.

The best part of being hobbyist is the amazing experiences I've had with my favorites, experiences I had no idea would be possible through doing this and times I will remember the rest of my life.

1.  I appreciate the couple of providers I've found who really went above and beyond.  Renity, Alantra, Bella Mia, etc. who are truly inspired artists at the LS (lover simulation - which I think is a better term than GFE).

2.  I wouldn't have panicked so at the demise of MFP.  I was sweating there for a while.  I felt foolish.

3.  I should have chained Renity in her apartment so she couldn't leave.

that I remain a humble woman.

were a close second!!!    Oh what a night!!!

Like staefaboy, I too well remember the scene when Giamarie came on the scene... Heads turned so fast, there were several cases of whiplash.

I REALLY miss MFP! It was such a close-knit group and allowed me the opportunity to meet people I would never have had the opportunity to meet and communicate with otherwise.

I, too, kinda freaked when MFP was exposed. I never did anything about it, but I was worried there for quite a while. I'm not sure if that is something I could have really changed - so far as my reaction was concerned. I yam who I yam.

I remember when you first came on the scene and the splash you created! OMG, the guys were falling over themselves talking and lusting for you!  I STILL haven't had the opportunity, although i would certainly like to!

I wish i would have found TER long ago.  It would have saved me time and money

On the whole, I mostly met wonderful ladies. But I wouldn't be so trusting. I got ripped off twice. Oh well, It's only money.

Guys need to talk to each other! My experience has been that most guys do not talk to each other about their experiences good or bad. I think that it would save everyone from many of the mistakes that are made in trial and error process that is required to become better at this hobby such as ripoffs, NCNS etc. Just my 2 cents.

My regrets are (1) that some doofus apparently shtupped a chimp in Cameroon and thus put the H in HIV, and (2) that the doofus whose fading and sagging image I see in my morning mirror failed to heed Nelson Algren's third rule many years ago and thus wound up a (very occasional) "hobbyist." I am alas vain enough to hasten to add that these two were not one and the same doofus.