So after reading mindy's post , I never heard their perspective "needs"  as to make a memorable experience. My  experience albeit limited is their needs to be mutual pleasure or it just end up in a bust. So here's your time ladies.  Let's make 2016 the best for all of us .
 

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Hope your friend's manfriend was covered? What did she do, just enjoy the back massage some more or was she more active? Guess it really depends on if he just stuck it in and didn't move so much or if he was pumping away? Tell us more...

Here's the Cliff's Notes:

I have talked to thousands of men all wanting to know, "What do you like?"  I'd say almost ALL of the times that this particular question has been asked has really meant, "How do I make you cum?"

We all want to feel good.  Everyone has their own thing.  However, it boils down to the communication between two people.  ALSO, it could be different depending on the day.

(There ARE exceptions)- Guys don't really want to know what will please us, just how to make us cum.  But a lot of guys want to be teased and no made to cum right away.  You want us to take our time.  HOWEVER, many of you seem to think that the more we cum, the more pleased we are.

I like to be teased, too.  I also do NOT really like anyone playing with my clit.  With few really listening or paying attention, I have to guard my precious little button.  

You want to make me cum??? Stop trying to make me cum, and just make me feel good.  THEN, I'll WANT to cum...

I better stop before I get too passionate about it...  
TL

So since they wanna know what makes me cum, I'll say it always depends on my mood, on how are bodies connect, it can vary.
I will say some sure fire ways to knock me off my "oooooh I'm about to".... When trying to "stir" me, if you want more grind or wiggle, tell me I'll happily oblige, guys personally no "stir" is necessary lol  

Another one that can alter my destination -full withdrawal & re-penetration,.....that makes it too easy to bang/bruise, slip, and basically just gets me into high alert mode.

Also if I'm outta Fc's & you don't really like regular condoms, that's your feeling fine -if you feel it's important to tell me how you don't like condoms, expect me to be on alert & not as in tune sensually as I would've been,
this world relies on and has got to be as safe as possible.

Good communication helps in so many ways, if I'm moving to fast, slow or you want another angle just let me know,
If you know you can get that 2 & third- again let me know