l final touches that crown the most delectable of treats!

A tasty analogy of my thoughts; every time I get a nice message from a fine lady after a pleasurable rendezvous. The follow up is a refection, that helps me to relive all over again our exciting adventure. As I reminiscence, it usually brings a big smile to my face. Dare I say, it's another titillation of my number one sex organ; that orb inside my big head. Perhaps I've been lucky, but my favorites over time have never disappointed me.  

First of all, if the experience has been fun (so far, every time up has been a hit, I'm batting 1,000), it is my habit afterwards to reach out to my lady friend with a sincere thank you, while mixing in a little banter. Her reply, usually adds excitement for an encore visit. Beats advertising!

I am not talking about a lot of time wasting here e-mailing back and forth; though I must admit, I always love getting extra messages from a sexy woman. Basically, a playful paragraph or two after a get together is extremely enticing. No matter her motivation, her words let me know she really wants to see me again; in a devilishly fun way. I am not under any illusions either, just saying this kind of great communication adds to the fulfillment of my fantasy world she has starred in. Not more than the implied relationship, but still a tangible connection while we were together and accentuated again with her alluring words in a personal note. Gents after all, isn't this all about satisfying our imaginations of trysts that are usually improbable to happen in real life? Anyway, that is truly what I've been seeking here ---------- I sought it, found it and relish it; more than my vivid imagination envisaged!

I am just looking to have a little fun with you folks, questions:

Do you guys enjoy that follow up message from her too?

Lovely ladies, what are your thoughts on the subject, isn't it nice to get a little thank you note of appreciation?

I would be nice to get a spontaneous greeting from a provider.  From a business standpoint it is common to thank the customer for the opportunity.  Though I think providers in this business have to guard more against sending the wrong signals -- such as desire to converse at length, or deeper personal attachments.

I hadn't really though about a client sending a spontaneous note.  Primarily because it just seemed like it would fill their already bursting inboxes with something they would then feel obligated to respond to.  

I'd be happy to send them little thank you notes. But I wonder if they might be annoyed more by the implicit reciprocal obligation it might impose

... because I recently received the nicest thank-you note (actually an eCard) from a local provider after I saw her for the first time.  I really appreciated it. She's a kind and thoughtful person and a consummate professional so I'm not surprised she did it, but what made it special was that, except for a "thank you, I had a great time!" text from an FSBM provider several years ago, it's the only thank-you follow up of any kind I've ever had from any provider.  I'm talking here about unsolicited thank-you's.  When I send a thank-you PM or email to a provider, I always get some sort of response in kind. I usually wait a day or so before I send the thank-you. Of course, some providers are voice call only, no texts, PMs, or email, so in those cases it's not possible for me to send a thank-you message.  And some providers' emails go to an assistant, so there again sending a thank-you is difficult.  

Yes, thank-you's are appreciated, and I think it's a good business practice... assuming it's someone the provider would like to see again.

Should I take something for my adult ADD?  

Of course it's good business practice & thank you for the one who pointed out we do have to be careful, we sure do.
The thank you follow up I've done it here & there -but not nearly as often as I should've or to all the ones I like so much.

However when a man sends me one I love it SO much & I'm pretty sure I've always replied promptly to reiterate how much I enjoyed the visits too. In no way is it upsetting to hear from you guys, many times I feel I dropped the ball & too much time has passed.

Also the jaded types that complain about "ThreAD" posting's (is that how they say) basically looking down at us for using what they think is just another way of "hunting" for appointments...

 That's made me think twice, I never wanna come across desperate or worse -intrusive  

I pride myself on my authenticity, so yeah it's always a touchy subject, the whole keeping in touch thing.....
                               I get so overwhelmed & I'm very "nit picky" about how I convey what I say, so seemingly simple 'keeping in touching emails' aren't so easy for me, especially when I think of what one of you said- a couple paragraphs, .....geez....
 Now for those of you who appreciate the "thinking of you"  comment, then expect to start receiving them.  
Because I do think of many of you & your very, very unique qualities & at least once a week I stop & thank  
the universe for my good friends & this time in my life right now.  

                   Thanks for this topic....
We don't know unless you say & I'm always willing to change or as I like to say grow.

At DQ

I enjoy spontaneous communications from lovely ladies I have seen, but I don't have anyone looking over my shoulder or snooping to find a text or email that hasn't been deleted. Guys who aren't careful or using a hidden phone or email account could easily be caught by a simple Thanks.

... any such correspondence, in either direction, should use only channel(s) that are acceptable to both parties. After the first date, it should be clear what they are, if they exist.  If not clear, be sure to ask before sending a thank-you.  And as I noted, sometimes there's no good channel for such messages... but they can be delivered in person.

I am not sure what you meant by this line "Should I take something for my adult ADD?"  For sure, I have never had any complaints with your communication. My thoughts on the subject are simply mine and what I like. Everyone has feelings about what they are comfortable with in a connection. Each connection is different. Follow your gut always and never second guess yourself. Warm regards!
   

I use a special hobby related e-mail account only; there is no concern and It works great. I especially agree the importance of any communication being agreeable to both parties! +1

I tend to be a little nervous at a first encounter, and I send a thank you note afterwards.  Of course it's pleasant to get an answer!  I don't think I'm all that memorable, so maybe a note will help me stick in a lady's mind should I decide to return.

What about if after a week or two or longer...  If the lady sincerely enjoyed your visit, she sent you a text or email saying that she was thinking about you and your visit? With me there are many ladies that I'm 'on the fence' whether I'm going to spend the money to see them again. I mean there are SO many lovely ladies in our state, coming to visit our state... That's it's hard to decide sometimes! But if a lady sincerely enjoyed me and remembered me and wants me back, that just may be enough to get me to schedule with her again.  
I get the whole private phone/email thing for hobby use, but that's kinda our responsibility. But again, if the lady really enjoyed you, she could even ask you before you leave if you minded if she ever sent you a random text. I don't know about you, but I personally would love it

There's comments above about sending the wrong signals.  Personally I wouldn't mind an occasional email from providers I've seen, but I don't expect it (lives can get very busy) and I understand if there's a concern about sending the wrong signal.  

But a simple "thank you; I'd love to see you again" after an initial session, either verbal or written, is a nice touch IMO when the provider would like to see the client again.  

-- Modified on 5/17/2016 10:42:55 AM

On the way out if before or after the kiss comes with- "I really enjoyed our time together and would love to see you return."

With a repeat " Hope to see you again soon"  

Both of these come off as
 being appreciated as a client

 


-- Modified on 5/17/2016 1:06:26 PM

Sometimes they beat me to it and sometimes they don't.  Either way, it's just a nice thing to do.

I couldn't agree more. Any unsolicited positive communication from a lady I have seen is always appreciated and usually results in my scheduling another date relatively soon thereafter. It's nice to know you're valued and appreciated. I always send a thank you after a date that I have enjoyed and when a provider beats me to it that increases the likelihood and frequency of return visits.