Well, my time in MN is at an end. I wanted to put a quick note out there to say how grateful I am to the wonderful women I have had the privilege to spend some time with during my stay here. You are all wonderful women and I sincerely will treasure my memories spent with you and thank you for opportunity you gave for us to meet and get to know each other a little.
Now for a couple of thoughts... Those that know me, know my views on "reviews" and why I do not do them, but I do believe/hope that the providers know my thoughts on our time together. I appreciate those that have put in honest reviews, but I feel those seem to be rare these days and a lot of reviews are more about boosting the hobbyist’s ego on their performance than actually giving a real idea of what it is like to spend time with the provider. I know it is easy for me to say since I do not write reviews, but I really do not think many hobbyists really get much out of a review going over how they "lasted 20 minutes", have the ability to magically give every woman multiple O's through your oral skills, and other ways showing how they are sex gods... I think a bit more information on the providers ability to make you feel comfortable together, hold a conversation, their demeanor, cleanliness, openess to what you wanted and overall experience would go much further in helping others determine if this is a provider they would like to see.
I am not the most prolific poster here, but have kept up with this board for the past year and a half or so. It does seem to me that there is a lot of drama, trolling, and general negativity here these days and that is unfortunate. However, trolling, etc is just part of an online “discussion board” these days regardless of where it is and we probably just have to deal with the fact that there are people who will do that (and yes, I do feel the ability to have an alias contributes to that). With that being said, (guys) it is important to remember that it is the providers which allow us to spend time with them (for whatever reason). I have always viewed it as a privilege to spend time with the wonderful women who (let’s be honest) I would probably not get a chance to in “normal” situations. I have always done all I could to treat every woman with respect and I believe my experiences in this hobby have been repaid ten fold due to that. Remember – they do not owe us anything regardless of any arrangement we may have made – treating them with the respect everyone deserves will pay incredible dividends on your experience.
This is a funny “hobby” (as a side note – that is such a strange term for this…) we are in. I know it would be very simple and easy if everything could be struck down to a base pysical component that is isolated from everything else. The fact is (in my opinion) is it can not be - there is such a thing as "chemistry" and a personal connection on at least some level that allows the physical part to be as good as we want it to be. Let's face it, there are going to be some providers/hobbyists that have that and some that don't. I think we should all learn to relax, remember the golden rule and have fun meeting some wonderful people and enjoy the time you get to spend with them. If everything is not exactly what you want/expect, you are still getting to spend time with a lovely woman, so really, what do you have to be so upset about? Oh, and remember, we are not porn stars, so if that is what you are expecting your experience to be, you will probably be a little disappointed with anyone.
I feel I am rambling a bit and will end this abruptly with a sincere “Thank You” to the providers I have seen and the positive contributors to this board and wish you all the best in your endeavors. I will always smile when thinking of my time here and the special memories I have with the providers here I have seen.
