Don't understand it. I realize I'm new and I have an Iowa number but why post on BP when you don't answer your phone or call back. Called twelve BP providers today, all reviewed on TER. No answer, no call back. I understand the the issue of safety but how does somebody with limited funds who can only do this infrequently get a start. Don't want to pay some service for the small amount of time I may have some extra funds. Was looking for someone to have a drink and maybe meal and something else. Don't know what to do. Ate and drank on my own, gave up. Better looking providers up here and I thought safer but totally disappoiinted.
Also, there are some decent escorts in Iowa if you look. BP is very hit or miss. As a rule, I don't go there. Hope this helps.
This is a tough deal. I know providers sometimes like to develop exclusive regulars but I find they often are not available on short notice even if they say they are. Not complaining there--I understand that life has many things that can come along to complicate. Just the way it is.
I'd keep plugging away. As you establish a reference or two and a good rep with some providers who would be happy to see you again, it gets easier. Still not a guarantee of being able to repeat with someone if you don't contact them days in advance, I have found. But it gets easier.
And by all means if you know ahead of time, don't wait to contact them!
Especially those that have to get a room, have to find daycare, have other jobs, etc etc etc.
Not to mention verification and checking references. Sometimes, it can take several hours to hear
back from another provider.....not their fault (they have lives too and are busy).
I think it helps some to get prescreened and verified ahead of time.
Some providers on p411 don't respond to prescreen requests. That can make seeing new providers difficult on short notice.
Not to mention verification and checking references. Sometimes, it can take several hours to hear
back from another provider.....not their fault (they have lives too and are busy).
I think it helps some to get prescreened and verified ahead of time.
There are one or two who are just lousy at communicating, but it's not specific to pre-screening. I'd say try again.
If you send that or an email from p411 then call me for a short notice appt ... It is much easier to verify you. Just let me know when you call that you sent me one from p411 and your username etc. works for me
Not to mention verification and checking references. Sometimes, it can take several hours to hear
back from another provider.....not their fault (they have lives too and are busy).
I think it helps some to get prescreened and verified ahead of time.
and when the lady replies, asking for more information, the guy is never to be heard from again.
Some folks are just lousy at communicating and/or following up. It goes both ways.
I am sorry that you are having so much trouble with P411. You could report those ladies who ignore your prescreen requests. I believe providers are required to reply to requests and PM's in a timely fashion or they will be removed from P411 or at the very least suspended until they talk to Gina about why they are not following up on their requests/PM's
What time of day did you call? Many girls don't get their ass moving until 3 PM
I have a 2 plus hour drive and almost never have an appointment in advance. I am usually calling BP girls in the late morning/early afternoon. I have been shut out but I think only once or twice. If you were calling later in the afternoon, it could be that many were already 'occupied'.
I always have a lengthy list of girls whose ads I have seen, realizing that many I will not get an answer from or a returned call. Good luck next time.
I too have an out of state phone no. but never have a problem hookin up. Try going on Ad board here and EROS. And as Vallen said book in advance if possible. A reference is VERY helpful too. If using BP try to find ladies with a website. You are right Minnnesota ladies are THE FINEST
I would say that maybe they were "busy" and figured not to call back if it was hours later. When I post an ad on BP I get many calls in a short amount of time ... some of which I can't answer because I am on a call or at an appt. When I get a chance to call those back I usually get no answer or they simply say they aren't looking for an appt anymore (sometimes they are rude about it).
Definitely not always true but what I have heard from some is that if the number is out of town and The provider can't get back to them right away ... It is unproductive to call back since they are there for a short period of time and probably not looking to book an appt later. I still try and call because you don't know if the guy is in mn for 1 night or many. They often book for the next night or so.
One other reason I might not call back is because of my crappy phone .... Some times difficult to know which calls were missed and/or already returned. Try email too. Emailing might take a while to get a response but I always respond to those.
I am sorry you got that response (or lack of) from some BP providers ... Not all of us BP girls are like that.
I'll keep trying for sure. I'll make a larger list next time and call days in advance. This trip was a bit short notice for me. Thanks for all the help.
It requires some perseverance but once you get more established it becomes easier. I find P411 quite useful and of course having a provider or two willing to give you a reference helps a great deal as well.