I have never done anything like this before. So I guess you could call me a newbie. Although I have been thinking about it for some time now. I will be in St Paul next Monday. Can anyone recommend the right young lady to get me started? I do prefer smaller, thinner women. Thank you

I'm sorry I don't know how to do click on links, but I suggest you check out TER # 175254.

What's your budget?
Are you wanting to spend $100 for 30" to get your toes wet?
$300-400 for a solid quality experience?
High roller $500-$1,000?

What about your type?  
White, black, Latina, Asian?
MILF, BBW, spinner, TS?

Menu options you want?
FS, anal, BBBJ or CBJ, CIM, facial, HJ, massage?

It's my guess that one of those nude or topless HJ by a young spinner type for $160 is what you're looking for at this point in your hobby career

Thanks for the recommendation, SK11!

tbloid, I'm very petite, sweet and newbie-friendly! Feel free to contact me, I'd love to show you a good time.

Warmly,
Joie -- Modified on 3/17/2015 9:00:47 AM

You have a hell of a body!  

ooxx,
TL

You're not so bad yourself.

That's a good amount of info that I probably should have stated to begin with. So to help you to help me;

300 or so is what I was figuring. Definitely want the first time to be worth it.
That being said, I prefer white or Asian. But I'm not against any others
 I guess you could say more the college girl spinner type. Leaning more towards GFE. I'm not really interested in anal.  

I hope that helps clear things up about my tastes and expectations. Hopefully I'm not asking for too much. Again, any help is always appreciated

Have you tried "Search Reviews"  and then reading reviews yet?

If you have specific questions, then you could PM the reviewers or even the providers themselves.

Maybe someone will hand you the keys to the kingdom or give you their recommendation but I've always found that no one knows my tastes and likes as well as I do.  

There's also this thing called YMMV.

PM me if you want my specific suggestions for you

The better providers require some sort of screening. One option accepted by some is Preferred 411 although some providers require "Okays" from other P411 providers before seeing someone new. Other options, such as a meeting before hand or providing other information about yourself is also sometimes accepted.  Good luck.  

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How is a guy like me supposed to compete with a a body like yours?!?!

Do I have to come tie you down so you stay away for our girls? LOL

Pondering the two of you together! hmmmm  I might need heart meds!

I have seen Joie 3 times and just sent her a PM about #4

I tried to send you a pm. It says that since I am a basic member that I cannot.  

I have searched the reviews on here, and have come up with a few that I like. I have contacted a couple. But as it is still a week away. They want me to get in touch on that day.

How about back page? Any ideas on the validity of some that advertise there?

 Also. Any young ladies reading this, feel free to say hi

Then you can do your homework, read reviews, and get a sense of what different ladies/services are to YOUR liking, not what someone else likes!! Homework/Research always pays off with any decision! Knowledge is priceless, and will go a long way to having a good experience!! Good Luck)

By at least a month of VIP so you can actually read the reviews of the ladies you might be interested in. VIP is a small investment to be sure the provider you pick offers what you are looking for and to avoid problems. Look above to Ilikewomen's thread about Sara, she has many reviews and none of them are good, VIP will help you weed out that kind of experience.

Just some tips for newbies that I've picked up through experience and listening to other people:

1.  Check out the newbie board; lots of good info there
2.  Get the VIP membership so you can see the review details and have access to the PM system
3.  Spend some time learning how to use the search functions for both reviews and the discussion board so you can identify ladies you would be interested in seeing based on the criteria that matter most to you (ex: looks, menu, rates, etc.)
4.  Figure out what kind of verification the ladies you would like to see require and how you can meet those requirements.  Some ladies are very particular.  Others are more flexible.  It's OK to contact them about it if you are not sure; just remember to be discreet.  Any  explicit questions will likely get you disconnect or otherwise ignored.
5.  Some ladies advertise here or on other sites that they are newbie friendly; keep an eye out for that.
6.  Consider joining a site such as P411 that pre-screens potential clients.  Some escorts will accept membership in such sites as satisfactory verification.
7.  If you are still puzzled by something after having done research, please feel free to ask questions.  I think for the most part we are willing to help out so long as we think you are not just freeloading on what others have learned.
8.  Develop a bit of a thick skin; some people are going to be jerks regardless.
9.  If an ad or offer looks TGTBT, it's probably TGTBT.
10. If you find yourself in any situation that doesn't feel quite right, trust your instincts and walk away.
11. As a newcomer, stick with well-reviewed ladies.  It's harder when you are inexperienced to figure out who the legit providers are from the fakes and scammers when they don't have reviews.
12.  Google is very useful.  Searching on a phone number or other info from an ad in Google can sometimes save you a lot of grief. Google Image Search is another very useful tool to search for other places where pictures in an ad are being used.
13. To help uncover ads that are using someone else pics Google Image Search and Tineye are useful tools.  Much better to find out ahead of time that the girl you are thinking of calling is using the pics from some porn star or model or that the pics have been used in ads from one side of the country to the other.
14.  Get an anonymous hobby email that is not through your work, school, or anything connected to your real life (yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc.) and use it for all your hobby email activity and for nothing else.  Be sure you include nothing that identifies who you really are when you create it.
15.  Get a prepaid phone that you use for nothing else other than hobby phone calls and pay cash for it and whatever refill minutes you buy.

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Increase your budget a little and check out some top ladies, well worth the investment. Poppy, Victoria Sloan, and /or Jillian should be a great introduction to hobby 101.

I don't think he's so interested in the older ladies. He specified college spinner type, white or Asian preferred...only Poppy fits that. But she's above his price point of $300.

He's new, we don't want him to start with the best, do we? Then it's downhill from there.

When learning a new hobby I strongly recommend learning from the best. He will have time to adjust or fine tune his preference over time. I remain steadfast in my recommendations of Poppy, Vic Sloan, and Jillian.

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