Minnesota
Frustated with Ella the ELF
Saw Ella was coming to Bemidji on Backpage and thought what a great opertunity to see a lady with great reviews. HaHa I have tried to contact this lady to set up an appointment for 3 days . Her phone mail box is full and has been for days I tried texting no response. I sent a PM . Finally got an answer by PM at 2:00 am saying she only books appointments over the phone. What a waste of my time this was .Why would you advertise if your not available. Its a joke I have no idea how she has 300 reviews with communication skills like this. Save your time .
Had the chance myself, appt set up 2 days ahead of time (which is rare in my case) and on my way to the metro with my itinerary tight, but workable. An hour ahead, I call just to make sure and gets location and she starts talking about not having a chance to check my refs and tells me I must now pay with a fucking green dot card. Cash in my fucking hand and she wants me to go out of my way to find a walgreens so I can pay another 5% to convert cash to loadable credit card. FUCK THAT!
I was able to reach her on her phone at least 3 times no problem prior to that but when that occurred, I washed my hands of this gal/agency.
She might be a great lay, but there's no piece of ass that is worth being dicked around for.
Makes you wonder how some providers survive in the world. We as buyers of there services are led my a little head that has no common sense at all.
I have seen Ella close to ten times... she is definitely worth going out of your way to load the pre-paid card for. she is by far one of my ATF's.
if you think anyone is worth 3 days of bullshit to see, your badly mistaken there are way to many providers out there that are every bit as good with-out having to kiss there ass to get an appointment
I totally agree. My time has value just as much as theirs does. I provide an excellent service to my clients and if I acted like that, there's a line of people behind me that would be more than happy to help kick my ass to the curb and take my spot. I'm mad all over again, lol!
Btw, Ella, if you read this, I didn't give your money to another provider, I went to Cabella's and bought a new Vexlar instead...it's portable, very dependable and provides me with as much pleasure as I require of it, just have to charge a battery occasionally. Sound familiar?? (and I won't get funny looks from TSA agents if I chose to pack it in my suitcase)
Im just posting my oppinion. Ella is a great lady and I would happily defend her any time. to bad your experience fell through.
But this is about her scheduling abilities. While I did not have those problems when I saw her, that you, I, and many other guys have enjoyed being with her doesn't mean she should be immune from criticism for other problems.
I managed to hook up with her Up North. I booked the day before and reconfirmed with no trouble via texting. I had tried calling but she never answered and her VM was full. Despite that and even though I was on time and she answered when I called from the parking lot 5 minutes early she said she would call back in a few minutes with the room number. Well, she was 30 minutes late calling me back with the room number and I had almost given up and left. Claimed she fell asleep. As for the reference checking and green dot crap, now she has Elf Waiver form that is taking the place of all pre-verification requirements. You have to sign it, as does she, but at the end you are allowed to take it with you. I didn't see any harm it it so I went along with it. I didn't have to show an ID or anything so I used a phony name.
I am not defending the bad behavior, but it was worth the trouble.
I've seen Ella 4 times, each as good as the last. Ella and I shared a very unforgetable 2011 Christmas Eve. Of the 4 sessions, she was late once and communicated as such. Her personality fits mine to the letter and we have a lot of fun. She's been good to me. I'm not white knighting, just sharing my experiences. I've communicated with several providers via text and had mixed success. If they don't answer the phone or reply to a text there may be a chance they are preoccupied. Many of us complain about phones buzzing, ringing, blinking, flashing, squaking, etc during sessions. I prefer the provider turn off their phone. If I book a two hour session the focus should be on our time, not someone trying to contact the provider. I'm not defending actions, only throwing out possible scenarios.
They seem to concern the process of getting their foot in the door to obtain those services. & regarding text messages, some providers block text messaging to avoid the time wasters, & for other reasons. I know I do. You may want to check with the lady & find out what their preferred method of communication is. & BTW, sorry to those who have experienced difficulties in this case.
Totally agree on the text messages, those seem to be hit or miss - but I have found that even providers that say "no texts" respond to them quite promptly. Regarding her preferred method of communication, I think the OP covered that. He said her Voicemail (telephone being her preferred method of communication) was full for days before he texted and PM'd her.
First off I have no issue with Ella's services at all I never got to experience them. I was only refering to her communication problems. As far as the texting thing goes .I was already approved to use text to contact her. I would only use texting if approved by the provider and i always ask if its ok to text. As far the b.s. about the use of alias's and all the other things that poped up on this thread,it was not my intention to raise these issues. I posted because of my communication problem with Ella and the time i wasted .Your results may vary, i just shared mine. Isnt that what this board is for? sharing experiences good and bad.
Please don't take insult in my comment. It was NOT directed at you. You did all the right things. I was merely responding to another comment re: text messaging. Just a little FYI so to speak as the issue was raised. Again, I am sorry you had to go through this.
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