I was just curious how much personal info do you provide when verifying with providers? Do you cover your address on your DL, and if so just the street address, street address & town, DL #, or what combination of those?

I think it's a personal choice, based on how much risk you want to take.  A huge percentage of providers are trustworthy, and most are professional and don't make mistakes with your info.  However, if you are risk averse and it would be a huge  problem for your info to become public in some fashion, you probably want to limit divulging it as much as you can.  Or just not divulge it at all.  If you can't keep your own secret, it's probably not fair to expect others to keep it for you.

Totally defeats the purpose of vetting. I think everyone does what’s right for their lifestyle. Most providers require 2 references from people they have never met. Mind boggling that many rely on p411 okays & it’s not a verification site. The fun fact is no one screens better, than me. I care about my safety. Single mom.

I saw 👀 a provider who does nothing to verify, but screens by cheating over the phone 📞 apparently vibes don’t lie. I need real life verification myself personally. Find the provider who fits your needs.

Why are you admonishing her fro her screening requirements? It is what she requires and is her right just as it is yours to not comply and see someone else .
Actually if you read her website she also requires a deposit which more then once you have stated here you do not do!  So why are you worried about her ID requirements .
At least in this post you have been polite.

Guess maybe I touched a nerve. Four posts saying nothing . First of all I will also not do deposits or sen real ID so we are in agreement here to you or Bia.
But I also do not need to tell every provider that posts her position on that a rebuttal, nor do I see fit to post a provider is a scam because she will not see you, or go to the buzz board and post how overpriced a provider is .  
Your history legendary. -e-

I ask for your picture to show and your full legal name. I am OK with the rest being crossed out. If you have a very common name I will ask for your DOB to verify I am looking at the correct person. I would say it is about 50/50 of guys that send the ID with info blocked out and the rest send the whole ID with all the info visible. Either is fine in my book.

YOU sent me your full ID for screening purposes. And no, I will not use it to black mail you as I don't give two shits about you and your nonsense. Thank you also for your very eloquently worded post. The reason I said I would not see you is one reason and one reason only and that is your unhinged posts on this board. You also offered me $1,600 to go "bare" with you for one hour (NO, AND GROSS). All the "common prostitutes" can read what you post. Might want to consider that before you hit "post message".  

Stay sane and stay safe,
Scarlet

See by Scarlett’s post you do send PI.  

Another correction - I can not afford Mucatto but still have my stock of “Ripple”  

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The first time he contacted me I honestly did not even put 2 and 2 together that he was the same person that posts here. I told him that for first visits I only do 60 or 90 min appointments and he was VERY pushy that he had to see me that day. I told him I do not see new clients the same day. He said it was "not a problem and he really wanted to see me" and was going to drive the 6 hours round trip to see me for one hour in Wausau. Red flag!!! I declined and did not see him.  He then saw my ad that I was in Bloomington this last summer and at that time told me that he was Micky that posted on the MN board and that was when he offered me the $1600 (one hour without a condom was his request). Giant hell no. When I brought up his posts on this board he of course said that this is not really his personality and that it is all just a show. He ended his message with "God bless you and the United States of America." And for his attempt to insult you on the wine you brought: no gal, unless you are seeing a snooty bitch, is going to care about the brand. I no longer drink alcohol but I am perfectly happy with guys bringing $10 non alcoholic sparkling wine from Target or even a $4 bottle of sparkling grape juice. It is the thought that counts and that is very thoughtful of you.  

Scarlet

The only point I made is that you are a nutter butter. I was in Bloomington in June of 2025. That was two months ago.  I am sure if you scroll the ads for MN on here my ad will still show up. You also publicly posted on this freakin MN board the $1600 offer that you sent me via email.  And no, I do not have any of your information. I almost wish I did so I could post the nonsensical gibberish you sent me. But alas, no dice. I am a provider that is true to my word.  The only case you have is that you have a screw loose and all providers should be warned to stay away.

And on that note, in the words of Mr. Micky, our second favorite troll on the MN board:  

"God bless you and the United States of America."

This is so silly, but im happy to know im on your radar, i actually don’t require ID for screening but you are actively choosing not to read the website i put several hours into, and fortunately that’s not my loss ☺️ no PI needed but I have such a trusting demographic that it isn’t necessary to book most anyone who doesn’t feel comfy sending it 🫶🏽 I still don’t know some of my clients real first names, but you’re lack of ambition faults you from getting booked, that’s unfortunate for you, truly.

It’s always fascinating to discover whose attention I hold, even months or years later. Especially when the grudge comes from me declining an unusual private request. One I won’t share here, because even if you don’t respect me, I respect your privacy.

 
If you’d read my website or corresponded with me directly, you’d know I offer several screening options: ID, Employment, P411, references, in-person verification, encrypted email or Signal. Most of my clients choose ID or Employment because it’s the most seamless, but I’ve always accommodated those with different needs while still respecting my need for safety. Some of the lurkers of this board know first-hand.

 
What concerns me more is your repeated use of “prostitute, slut, whore.” Those words say far more about your relationship to women than they do about me. If your default is to insult women for having boundaries, it’s not about screening… it’s about resentment.

 
It’s a rhetorical question, but… are you married? Because most married men assume they’ll never truly “have to pay” for intimacy again. That it will just happen because they’re married. But then years pass, the connection fades, desire becomes lopsided, and the realization sets in that intimacy still requires investment. Whether that’s emotional labor, energy, or yes, sometimes money. For some, that realization curdles into bitterness. I’ve seen it before, and it never looks good on anyone.

 
Call me what you want. I won’t call my clients “tricks” or “Johns,” because I see them as human beings who deserve to be touched, seen, heard, and cared for. It took time to get to where I am but my work is about connection, respect, and discretion, which is why those who meet me tend to stay.

 
I believe in reciprocity. My clients invest in me, and I invest in them. I scoured for weeks for a vintage 1940s French key, placed in a custom shadowbox for a client who unlocked a new chapter in my life. I’ve sourced a milestone birthday gift a client had admired for years and taken them to dinner to a location they had been talking about for months to celebrate (yes, I paid). My work is built on connection and care, thoughtfulness and reciprocity. Not transactions.

 
But if you’re still out here calling women prostitutes, sluts, and whores to make yourself feel taller, you’re not playing in the same league. Some of us are in the Majors… and you’re still striking out in T-ball.

 
And for anyone keeping score:  this is exactly why my clients trust me. Screening isn’t a hurdle; it’s the first step in creating the kind of experiences that keep us all winning.

I feel you can always  find the provider who shares your mutual preferences for mutual comfort -  it’s ok to be rejected by one just move on to someone else  
And it’s okay to take your time to find trust  

There are ways established providers gain trust - such as verified photos and profiles along with presence & more than enough reviews on trusted sites - seek her reviews or watch the way she interacts to get a feel on the respect given to her clients & surroundings  -  

She most likely wouldn’t spread your info for no reason- and unless you’re physically dangerous - most of us typically stay level headed about it .  

 
If I were a provider who has zero history of who she is with zero references such as reviews and such , I feel like I would NEED to require provider references from established providers with a lot of the verification  I lack at that moment and can’t really expect but can hope someone gives me their un-altered ID  

Unless a person is fully retired by age  

 I personally also feel it’s fair to cross out the address , but I appreciated it more when it’s there  
the registered number and date of birth should be sufficient for just the ID part alone (but I require additional verification for those who aren’t of retiring age though)  

Happy verification ~  
May you keep the community safe