During a recent chat with a long-term regular from the neighborhood, he posed a few questions that really got us thinking. We dove into an intriguing discussion about the TC market and how different aspects like body type, race, rates, demeanor, perceived "MN Nice-ness" or assertiveness, etc.  can affect the market's reaction to a provider. In the middle of our conversation, he dropped this gem: "Familiarity breeds contempt." Of course, I was intrigued by that statement so I  asked him to elaborate. And he dropped some food for thought.  

I prefer seeing local providers. And once I find an exceptional provider who fits my needs and budget, I see her as often as I can - which isn’t nearly often enough.  

Contempt is the wrong word. But there is something to the fact that our priorities are going to default to potential lost opportunities rather than "sure things." Trouble is that there is always another touring babe and limited dollars so the sure thing keeps getting put on the back burner.
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I confess I have a similar issue with sugar babes. There's always a fresh face popping up. Even though I've established connections with several. They kind of end up getting rotated out even the they were perfectly fine.

"i asked him to elabarorate".  He didnt really say familiarity breeds contempt  He said there was no sense of urgency.  Urgency is contempt?  Dont see your point.

He literally did say “familiarity breeds contempt” and I think you’re letting the point go over your head.

Guessing the person didn't want to get attached to a local provider. Might develop feelings for her over time due to proximity and ease of making appointments.  

What is your take on it?  Does familiarity breed contempt for you with your regulars?  
If I am interpreting the saying correctly, I feel that I have experienced that from providers I have seen on a regular basis.  

"Familiarity breed contempt".....

"Familiarity breeds contempt" implies he looks down on local providers for some reason but that doesn't match the explanation he gave you for using that term.  To me, it sounds like his preference for travelers was simply due to each one's relative scarcity compared to providers who live and work locally.  That honestly just seems like a matter of taste to me.  My historical preference has been to see local providers as I usually prefer to repeat with providers I really enjoy seeing.

Paige, keep up these cogent and timely posts. Maybe your analyst can pitch in here so we know what the fuck youre saying.

I'm sure I'll be called a "pick me" but I go above and beyond to take care of my regular clients. Whether it's doing outcalls to their private residences, accommodating last minute dates, fulfilling outfit requests, grandfathering rates, or simply keeping open lines of communication between dates, I always make sure they have a great experience. After all, why would I ever treat someone poorly when they're consistently choosing to spend their valuable time and hard-earned money on me?

Hey, thanks for all the replies! It's pretty clear that a lot of people have a problem with the word "contempt". I have to admit, even I got caught up on that word, which is why I asked him to explain. And when he did, I understood why he used that phrase, even though he didn't mean "contempt" in the Oxford Dictionary sense.  

So this thread is just an advertisement for Paige Savage. T

I provided an answer to a question directed at me. It's worth noting that any post made by a provider here could be seen as a form of advertisement. We aim to offer insights into our thinking process, which can either deter or attract clients.

It's an old expression. Google says:

… but that some of us don’t think it applies as described by the client in the OP.  It seems it’s more like, “easy access breeds lack of urgency.”  
That’s not nearly as catchy as “familiarity breeds contempt”, though. 🙃

I've found that proverbs are usually not a good basis for making any sort of decision.
Every person is different, for some people maybe this proverb holds true. For many others it probably doesn't. As someone whos been both a provider and client. I would guess that most people would prefer familiarity and see it as a positive thing that does not breed contempt.

That is often the death of a marriage though. I don't know that it would apply here.  There is a human desire for novelty, perhaps more so here than other places.  And though I can't quite imagine saying, "..another bj where she has sucked out my very soul twice again.... boring " I suppose it's possible   it might be fun getting  there.