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I know I do not speak for myself on this topic.
Squirting is not pee. I am learning to squirt. There is a certain technique that works for me; same as other ladies I have been with. No two techniques are the same.

My pussy becomes very wet when I am turned on. I have put my fingers between my lips and then tasted my wetness. It doesn't taste like pee.
I am not able to squirt or spray with distance, but I do gush. And that doesn't happen every time. Often for me to gush, I need to give instructions or be with someone that I have a connection with.
If it was pee, I would be able to gush every time because I have control of when and where I pee.

I would love to hear opinions on squirting (or female wetness) from the other squirters, non-squirters, men who love squirters and men who hate when women get wet.

Wet in the Cut,
Samantha

ps Thanks for the sexy wet pic this week Amber, you rock!!

This is from: http://jezebel.com/351263/shejaculation-or-how-i-learned-to-stop-worrying-and-love-the-gush

"So where is this stuff coming from then? No one knows for certain, but the likely answer is the Skene's gland, which is located on the upper wall of the vagina, around the lower end of the urethra, and is said to also be the biological mechanism behind G-spot orgasms. It drains near the urethral opening." (see pic below)
"The Skene's gland thing would explain why penetration is needed for me to squirt: According to a study at the University of Italy, Skene's glands have "a highly variable anatomy, and in some extreme cases they appear to be missing entirely. If Skene's glands are the cause of female ejaculation and G-spot-orgasms, this may explain the observed absence of these phenomena in many women."

And this is from: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/female_ejaculation.htm

"There hasn't been enough research on the fluid (ejaculate) - partly because it's difficult to obtain adequate supplies of it for investigation. Also, scientific funds tend to be available for life-threatening diseases rather than for sexual problems.

However, recent research suggests the ejaculate is an alkaline liquid that isn't like urine, because it doesn't contain urea or creatinine, which are normal urinary constituents.

The fluid tends to be clear coloured and doesn't stain bedclothes - again, unlike urine.

Researchers have claimed that it contains some chemical ingredients similar to those produced by the male prostate - notably PSA (prostate-specific antigen). It is also said to contain two sugars: glucose and fructose.

Since 2000, an increasing number of researchers have suggested the liquid may come from Skene's glands. These are tiny secretory structures which lie around the female urethra (the urinary pipe)."

Ok so would you care to spend some time with me searching my areas, to see if I could do it??

About 18 months ago, Kat from Brainerd sent me detailed instructions. I have been practicing ever since!

You will love it!

When I used to sell sex toys I would educate women on this topic. Women many times are afraid to let go like that, for many it at first feel like you have to pee...I would give the advice to empty your bladder prior to the foreplay so that you can set your mind at ease.  For me I am only able to when I am in a deep committed relationship, so I know the mind really plays a part in this, I wish I could and admire the women who are able to easily.  When it does happen it's like this deep level of euphoria...I will never forget the first time this happened I was amazed. xxo becky raven

that every woman is able to squirt.  She just has to learn how to do it.  Wish I knew how.
Anyone wanna' teach me?

Hugs, Belinda

Only if u promise its hands on training

maybe we could have a squirt party!!
LOL...

There are at least 5 ladies in the area, I would consider to be squirt queens. They know who they are (I hope they lend some insight to this post).

I think you are right Belinda, every lady can squirt. It just has to be shown to them.
There is no rushing it either.
I don't think it is possible to squirt on demand.

The topic is making me wet,
SG

Samantha,

I have always wondered about this.  I can get extremely wet, but never could squirt, except for this one time..........

I had a good friend up here and we did doubles with a mutual friend you know also. She used a g-spot vibrator with an egg shape at the end inside of me and then a Hitachi magic wand on my clit,.... I died and went to heaven and meanwhile the client and her were exclaiming about what I was doing down there, LOL.  I was so surprised myself and in turn they took pictures which I will not display here for now.  It was like wow, but this was very much like male ejaculate and was gushing out of me, no taste, just sweet estacy for me. Now maybe this was a version of squirting, hell, I don't know, I orgasm often when in a session and in the back of my head I am always trying to get there again, haha.

Bianca or Samantha, I have no problem trying to bring others to that place or coaxing a client to try. I think it not matters what you use to accomplish, its stimulating the g-spot and the outer erotic areas at the same time when you are completely amped up and relaxed at the same time, so many different ways is what I am thinking. Afterwards I have never felt so deeply relaxed and all I can still say is "Wow" "What was that??"  Maybe some experienced squirters can provide some answers...

Love and peace, J. xxxoo

Here goes~
I didn't squirt till I was 47.  I'd never heard of it.

I was newly divorced and dating. One guy was a doctor.

At the height of the moment of the most intense orgasm I've ever had, I jumped outta bed and ran to the bathroom, thinking I had to pee.  Surprised the shit outta him.

After going back, getting back to business and having this happen yet one more time, he followed me into the bathroom and said "You're not peeing ya know...  try to pee." I couldn't for the life of me. He said that's cuz I was squirting. "HUH?"  

He said it's like when a guy gets a hard on and is cuming, they can't pee then, the valve turns over. (Or something to that effect.)

He also said every woman has the capability to squirt, but most don't let themselves go enough to be able TO squirt.

I can't squirt on demand. It's not a light switch.  I don't squirt for everybody, sorry.  I need to be sexually aroused/excited enough to "be there."  Squirting for me is one step over an orgasm.  Sometimes I have a lot of fluid, sometimes not so much, dunno why.  I have no control over it.  I just know I enjoy the hell outta it.

I am definitely no expert on squirting.  Not at all.  I just know what I was told.  I don't know the scientific stuff about it, but did learn quite a bit today! (thank you gorgeous SG)  

I just know WHAT I feel, and HOW it feels.  I can orgasm without squirting, and that's great, but squirting isfanfuc*ingtastick!

I'm done now. *giggle*
Hugs,
D.

Not to sound narcissistic, but as you most know I have to go for a bit and you know why (sigh) the joys of womanhood. What a better way to send me off than a bunch of hot MN ladies, (in nurse costumes, lol) to have a squirting party!! teehee a girl can dream right. But seriously if any of you chics want to cum c if you can help me...BE MY GUEST! MUAH BJ

You're giving away our secret!!  There's so many girls that can do it now!!!   Was so much more fun when it was just a couple!!  lol, how selfish I am!!

I agree with you 100%  It doesn't happen for me everytime, and depends on daily living and activities!!  I am taking a pill right now that affects it to an extent, so I actually had to buy some lube the other day!!  But more people have figured out that I truthfully have more fun when I don't, or don't as much, than when I gush!!  But sometimes there's just no way that I can hold back, and well, guess that's what the towels are for, right sexy guys!!  Besides, the wetness that's there before the squirting is more lubricated and more fun to "use", yet, the HOT feeling of the juice sliding between two bodies, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm   Ok now that I'm horny, and still nothing I can do until MONDAY!!!!!!  

Squirting is definatly something mother nature sure had fun with!!   I love how many are truely excited and anticipate what it will be like!  I hate disappointment, yet trying to please 100% ruins the true feeling of excitement!!

ok, ok, I ramble to much!  You all know that!!
Have a great weekend!!!!
GOOOOOOOOO  VVVVVIIIIIIIIKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKSSSSSSSSSS!!
(ya, and Farve to!!)
XOXOXO to all!
Sam

How do you have a conversation about squirting, without the squirting princess here?!?!? This is my specialty and I offer it for my clients that take an hour or more......I must say, it's the best orgasm......

But what's even better is I've learn to have control over mine, I can make it a lot and soak you up, or make it a little and have you wanting more, or just hold it and not do it at all.......

It is something new if you've never done it, and is hard to get the hang of the positions and things to know what gets you to that point.....not to get too graphic, but penetration and clit play will make me blast off!! A combination of both.....

Remember Sex Talk with Sue Johanson?? I learned how to do it from her, yearsssssss ago!! And never turned back, so all you girlies that want to learn how to do it, I'd suggest looking up Sue Johanson, she's explains it well........

ANYWHO, happy squirting!!! Sorry for the long post!

Yes I squirt-gush and squirt-I would not win any contests however!  Fingering the g spot works for me but is never guaranteed...sorry.

My doctor told me they have done studies to try to find the source of this wetness.  The only thing proven was that is it NOT urine.

Yes, tiny structures like they quasi-mythical paraurethral glands can account for increased secretions during arousal.  You call it "gushing" or having an increased amount of wetness - even soaking.  No problem.

You wrote:

"Since 2000, an increasing number of researchers have suggested the liquid may come from Skene's glands. These are tiny secretory structures which lie around the female urethra (the urinary pipe)."

Read that again - TINY secretory structures that lie around the female urethra.  These (as you describe them) tiny structures do not have a lumen that could store and release the amount of fluid you see in photos like Amber's.

Same goes for the "Skene's Glands."  It seems no one can describe the structure or function of these glands.  Every day around the country, human cadavers are dissected for education and research - no additional funds needed.  Current and future urologists and anatomists can remove and display thousands of tiny organs and structures in the body, but they cannot seem to find and describe a "Skene's Gland" - much less one large enough to hold and expel the amount of fluid expelled by "squirters".

You'd think one of them would say "Hey look at this big-ass gland bordering the urethra!"  The thing would have to be larger than a gallbladder.  But it is never found.

The fact remains that the only structure in a woman's body capable of storing and expelling the sheer volume fluid displayed in most "squirting" displays is the bladder.  And we know what fills the bladder.

The reason for the decreased odor/urea/nitrogenous waste content in the urine observed during squirting could be that the kidneys produce very dilute urine during arousal to avoid contaminating the playground with sewage during playtime.  The kidneys can do a fantastic job of changing the composition of urine as needed.  I suspect this is what is happening when lay people examine the product of "squirting."






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