Who would cancel on the incredible Trinity Lake?  They should be flogged for their disrespect!

Posted By: TrinityLake

I've been canceled on again... SO, I'm watching Trevor Noah's "African American" stand-up on Netflix.  
   
 Funny as hell!  
   
   
 TL  
   
 "Laughter is a Hazard to your SICKNESS" -author unknown to me, but it is not my own.

How rude to cancel on Trinity.  I have been wanting to see you for some time.  You should have contacted me.  Until then

I've had the same experience in recent days. "sigh" I know the holiday season can get hectic & unpredictable. Not to mention, although there are many pleasantries to be had, it also can get quite stressful. I've found over the years that while in the throes of stress & frustration gents will without forethought schedule visits that end up unaccomplishable. (I Don't think that's a real word. Lol!)

Anyhoo.... I hope this behavior doesn't go viral. Especially at this time of year.

Great to see you taking the cancellations like the champ & upstanding lady you are.

Happy holidays gorgeous!

Leigh-Ann

It is a challenging time for all those who don't get PTO and Holiday pay.  If I don't laugh, I'll cry sometimes.  But most times, I'm just grateful  

ooxx,
TL

After pondering my comment further, i realized i was probably premature, (first time in years), in assuming said client did something wrong.  As was mentioned a couple of weeks ago, tis the season of colds and flu.  Maybe said client did a favor in canceling.  Maybe he just didn't have enough Nyquil to share.

So in fairness to the client, i am willing to take the flogging i suggested.

OC

There are no excuses.   Said jerkoff should have never scheduled with you if he couldn't make it, no excuses!

I had to cancel one time when I got sick.  But I let her know immediately and she was most gracious and understanding.  I booked with her later and had a wonderful time.  

I make a real effort to be a good communicator with the ladies and be respectful of them.

I've been lucky in that all the providers I've met have been really special women whom I totally enjoyed my time with.

On the other hand, I've recently been communicating with a provider who is really down on her luck and needs someone to help her to turn her life around.  She is in the business but doing everything wrong and I worried about her.  I have very, very limited time availability.  I reached out to help her and scheduled a time to meet her for coffee so that we could talk.  We were supposed to meet in the morning.  She slept all day that day and I didn't hear from her until late evening.  Its hard to help someone when they aren't responsible

Trinity,  
Sorry you got cancelled on.
I had to cancel last week when I was getting set to leave house and found wife had inadvertently taken keys.
First time with a new person.  She had taken a hotel room.
Called her and said I would make it all good.
She was naturally gracious (who wouldn't with that offer?)
We rescheduled, had a great time. Paid her double. But it will even out over more appointments.
From now on this is my procedure.  I know you lose a great deal with these.
Happy holidays.
S

I would think cancelling is always better than no call no show.

Who in their right mind would stand you up hun? You are one seriously fun lady.