that is wat this board is for.  Go to advanced search and enter what you are looking for in the area you want.  Not really all that difficult or challenging. Don't expect every one else to do all the due dilligence for you.  http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/searchReviews.asp

Talking about massages, there's not much good quality independent providers in the suburbs. There's a few AMP's, so you can give that a shot, but don't expect HE from them.