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shastamcnasty 1670 reads
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1 / 14

I recently tried to book a date with a provider from the back page. Her name is Linda,5"100 lb. spinster that reminded me of Bridget dances. When I called her we agreed on a 3 hr date.I texted her my address and she called  back.She started bitching that it took a long time for me to text her my address.I believe it took me around 5 mins. She then asked me how much was I willing to spend.I told her the 3hr deal that we agreed upon would work for me ,then I mentioned only if she wanted to stay up that late.( it was 11pm when we talked)  She was real rude and then asked "have you ever done this before". I told her I had, but it had been a while . She then told me that she could only do the date if I paid for 2 girls. I told her I was'nt into rude providers who up sell on the phone so I ended our conversion. Here is my question, I've been out of the hobby for a while but in the past when you book a 3hr date ,doesn't that mean you get to speed 3 hrs with a provider?or have the rules changed ? Does  the amount of time that you spend with a provider determine the type of service you get? For instance, does 1hr service add up to just a bj?Would that make 3 hrs full service? I'm vary confused by this.

MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 1020 reads
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2 / 14

Perhaps she was spooked since 11pm is kind of late so that could be why she suggested that 2 girl option?  
Idk 5 minutes isn't that long of a time however to some of us that can feel like an eternity especially if we have to travel to you. You have to figure out the map etc.  
 I think the only part that was rude is her asking you about the rates you wanted to spend. Just my opinion.

Posted By: shastamcnasty
I recently tried to book a date with a provider from the back page. Her name is Linda,5"100 lb. spinster that reminded me of Bridget dances. When I called her we agreed on a 3 hr date.I texted her my address and she called  back.She started bitching that it took a long time for me to text her my address.I believe it took me around 5 mins. She then asked me how much was I willing to spend.I told her the 3hr deal that we agreed upon would work for me ,then I mentioned only if she wanted to stay up that late.( it was 11pm when we talked)  She was real rude and then asked "have you ever done this before". I told her I had, but it had been a while . She then told me that she could only do the date if I paid for 2 girls. I told her I was'nt into rude providers who up sell on the phone so I ended our conversion. Here is my question, I've been out of the hobby for a while but in the past when you book a 3hr date ,doesn't that mean you get to speed 3 hrs with a provider?or have the rules changed ? Does  the amount of time that you spend with a provider determine the type of service you get? For instance, does 1hr service add up to just a bj?Would that make 3 hrs full service? I'm vary confused by this.  

Pollenbroker 24 Reviews 851 reads
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3 / 14

A 3-hour date is the exception, particularly if you haven't seen the provider before.  While rudeness is not excusable, it's understandable that she'd be a bit leery of coming to some guy's place at 11 pm for three hours.  HEr request that you pay for 2 girls doesn't make sense.  And no, services offered should be the same, whether it's a one-hour date or an overnight.

shastamcnasty 761 reads
posted
4 / 14

Just to fill in the blanks about this, She is a provider that only advertises on the back page late at night. her adds usually dont show up untell sometime after 9pm. I agree with only seeing reviewed ladies,but Ive been out of the hobby for over 3 years and none of the providers from back then are still around.

woodchip 781 reads
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6 / 14

You need to get a membership here.  There are many ladies that will be happy to give you the 3 hours of your life!  Not sure you will ever find that on BP.

Drumsticks 90 Reviews 621 reads
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7 / 14
vorlon 119 Reviews 753 reads
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8 / 14

It probably would not have been a good session.  And no, the rules have not changed in the past few years.

Cropduster1 740 reads
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9 / 14

I would never book a 3 hour date in any instance. However, if you have great chemistry I found the one hour can stretch out nicely.

knotsaway 38 Reviews 758 reads
posted
10 / 14

Personally I would never book a 3 hour date as a first date.  3 hours is a loooong time if things don't click.   OTOH, with the right lady, 3 hours is not nearly long enough.  30 hours... maybe.  :-)

HobbyCity 688 reads
posted
11 / 14

Count yourself lucky you still have three hours worth of bucks in your wallet, didn't get robbed, beaten up or worse.

No, the rules have not changed but nobody in their right mind would set a three hour appointment with a BP provider they have never met before.

Your basis was she reminded you of a certain spinner. Did you even confirm that her pictures were real?

Do you know the percentage of ads with fake pics on BP?

I would only set a three hour date with an established provider with excellent reviews and someone whose personality I could get a feel for if I didn't know her from a prior date.

shastamcnasty 670 reads
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12 / 14

Your absolutely right about the risks of backpage providers, thanks for all the responses and advise .  As I mentioned I had a longing for a certain provider from the past. There was a reason for that. look up the ter id. 181998 out of Chicago you will see why . Just wish I had another opportunity with a certain provider .  

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phoebster See my TER Reviews 738 reads
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13 / 14
Armandotalia See my TER Reviews 889 reads
posted
14 / 14

She probably is very new and scared of 3 hours of full service.  Either way, not the best first impression and again you should probably find a reviewed provider as well!

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