I do hope you remember there is a reaction for
every action... some say it is a dish best
served cold.........

Bi-polar, I think.......

"Contradiction" seems to be a pattern with her, "No drama! No drama!" - But then write a bunch of "drama provoking" tripe about well known and respected TC guys on her website and then link it to her post on the TC board! As she announces her returning to our area! -- This was not a well thought-out plan!  



-- Modified on 9/17/2005 8:38:05 AM

In light of the rule I made about treating ladies with respect.....................

I'll do this as "respectfully" as possible!
  I don't mean this as an attack on you Alex, only to point out flaws in your logic and reasoning - In-fact I am not personally involved in your "Minnesota Drama" that YOU brought up by posting here, I'm just observing and offering "Color Commentary" to your thread.......
  It seems you are a rather "conflicted individual" - Let's break down your post and review each item as a seperate topic. Shall we?

1a]You wrote: "Typically, I don't entertain this kind of banter with a response"
-- My response: Funny thing is, I see a pattern developing with your approach, You first offer a disclaimer that you in-fact don't "do" or "engage in" something and then in the next sentence launch into the very thing you you claimed you were above the frey on.

1b]You wrote: "as I don't have the kind of spare time you people obviously do."
-- My response: It is not "obvious" to me, It seems this "Minnesota thing" has consumed a great deal of your time - be it "spare time" or not! You even went so far as to "feature it on your website that you use to promote yourself with!

2a]You wrote: "However, it appears I may have hit a nerve with a couple of you"
-- My response: I disagree, no nerves hit here, I've never met you, wasn't planning to, and now will certainly go out of my way not to - based on the personality you have put forward on your website and posts to this board! Also, your desire to take what you know from your "personal and private" encounters with some of your "clients" to a PUBLIC BOARD and then attempt to defame them in front of there peers is inexcusable!! I tend NOT to remove such posts from my board, I think they are a "public service", in that, men can see the WHOLE TRUTH in what they might expect from you should they end up on your bad side after trusting you with their "Special requests"!!

2b] You wrote: "which I imagine makes you either friends of the man in red thigh highs who got kicked off this board"
-- My response: I am neither "friend" or aquaintance of any such man in red boots, or for that matter ANY MAN ont his board! I'm a loner and don't develop personal friendships in regards to this hobby.

2c] You wrote: "possibly one of the men who couldn't keep their mouths shut about the time we spent together at a TER gathering"
-- My response: How "odd" that YOU would mention a character flaw about someone else that you suffer from to such a high degree yourself! - Take the plank of wood out of your own eye before trying to remove the speck of sawdust from your neighbors eye! It will be easier for you to "help" your neighbor, once your own condition is brought under control!

2d] You wrote: "or maybe the guy who offered me drugs during an appointment that I kicked to the curb.
-- My response: Considering what YOU were "offering" him, (for a price!) I hardly think you have the higher moral ground on this one!!!

3a] You wrote: "Here's some advice from me to you . . ."
-- My response: No thank you! I will do nicely without ANY advice from you! You might want to actually "SEEK" some advice, rather than offer any!

3b] You wrote: "Maybe you should try actually READING my response on my website instead of forming your own opinions as to what's going on with me here."  
-- My response: I read your statements on your website thoughly, That is WHY I felt the need to post and shed light on the fact that your "anouncement" of returning to the area was in-fact a "cloaked" attempt to spew pissy things about men from this area! - If I had NOT read your website, then I would have assumed you were just a touring girl on her way into town........

3c]You wrote: It would take some of the guess work out of it for you.
-- My response: No "guess work" here, YOU HAVE ISSUES! and the facts to prove it are clearly woven into your posts and your website's "Drama journal"!

4a] You wrote: "Regardless, it's a beautiful Saturday afternoon"
-- My response: I agree!

4b]You wrote: "and I, for one, am going to go enjoy it.  I hope you do also."
-- My response: I have enjoyed it very much so far, and Hope the same for you.

5] You wrote: "Have a terrific day!"
-- My response: I am, Thank you!



-- Modified on 9/17/2005 7:56:04 PM

-- Modified on 10/6/2005 11:55:32 AM

The "Little Head" can become your most powerful ally in this hobby but,,,

"Power is nothing with out control" My Little head has guided me to many a fantastic experence that I would have otherwise missed out on, But sometimes has dragged me into situations that I wish I could have erased from my memory!

Here is a little "Biblical wisdom" that helps me guide the "Little Head's" impulsiveness:

Proverbs 7, 7-27 (NIV)

7 I saw among the simple,
      I noticed among the young men,
      a youth who lacked judgment.

   8 He was going down the street near her corner,
      walking along in the direction of her house

   9 at twilight, as the day was fading,
      as the dark of night set in.

   10 Then out came a woman to meet him,
      dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent.

   11 (She is loud and defiant,
      her feet never stay at home;

   12 now in the street, now in the squares,
      at every corner she lurks.)

   13 She took hold of him and kissed him
      and with a brazen face she said:

   14 "I have fellowship offerings at home;
      today I fulfilled my vows.

   15 So I came out to meet you;
      I looked for you and have found you!

   16 I have covered my bed
      with colored linens from Egypt.

   17 I have perfumed my bed
      with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.

   18 Come, let's drink deep of love till morning;
      let's enjoy ourselves with love!

   19 My husband is not at home;
      he has gone on a long journey.

   20 He took his purse filled with money
      and will not be home till full moon."

   21 With persuasive words she led him astray;
      she seduced him with her smooth talk.

   22 All at once he followed her
      like an ox going to the slaughter,
      like a deer stepping into a noose.

   23 till an arrow pierces his liver,
      like a bird darting into a snare,
      little knowing it will cost him his life.

   24 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
      pay attention to what I say.

   25 Do not let your heart turn to her ways
      or stray into her paths.

   26 Many are the victims she has brought down;
      her slain are a mighty throng.

   27 Her house is a highway to the grave,
      leading down to the chambers of death.

Look, you jerk . . . There is not a violent bone in my body.  Get a friggin' life!

While I'm here, I might as well post here what I did on Big Doggie.  Here goes . . .

Let's just get a couple of things straight here kids:

It was me who contacted "Trooper" . . . There you have it. However, I never threated to expose him for disagreeing with my opinion, nor did I request and/or demand he leave any board. I simply asked him to get his friggin' facts straight before he formed them. His opinion regarding me, which he blasted on TER, was based on some crap he was told by another, which wasn't true, AND he did it having NEVER EVEN MET ME! It threatened my livelihood - my means to support myself and my family. Hence, I wanted him to feel what it felt like to have HIS livelihood threatened for a sec. If I wanted to really expose him and his little group of cronies, I have a much viewed website on which to do it. However, that was NOT my intent!

What you small, yet vocal, group of people fail to realize is that while this may be a sport for some of you, it is a provider's life!! Blasting someone you've never even spent time with on some board can put a dent into their business and take food out of their childrens' mouths! Why would someone want to do that to a total stranger?! I just don't get it, and honestly, it hurts like Hell! I know you other providers know EXACTLY about what I'm speaking . . . Form whatever opinion you'd like of me AFTER you've meet me. I don't give a crap. However, most will tell you once they do meet me, I'm extremely nice and a terrific provider. "Trooper" and his buddies had no right to go and tell the entire nation otherwise without having even met me.

Oh yeah . . . By the way, the reason I have no reviews in the last six months is because I have a VERY STRICT "No Review Policy". What happens with me behind closed doors STAYS THERE!!!

I hope y'all have a terrific day. Myself, I have appointments. Best of luck to you.