Never seen a porn, don't have any ambition to see one.  To each their own.  I like to believe my scenarios that I run thru my brain are concocted with my imagination.  I'm fairly "vanilla" when it comes to the hobby and thru the years of sexual experimentation, I have developed my, shall we say, style.  As much as I envision myself as some sort of stallion, reality hits.  I'm just me, too damn old to change.  Hell, I'm a 50 year old, over-weight, average looking man having sex with all these beautiful women.  I understand this is fantasy and people enjoy playing out their "scenes".  My advice would be to contact some ladies you are interested in and run some ideas past them.  Keep this between you and the ladies.  Just my .02  IMHO.  Good Luck to you sir.

Once you and someone you have seen are comfortable enough with each other and you think she would be a good choice then you can chat.  Do so in person, not on the phone, via email, etc.

I think you should go ahead and post your bucket list and show us what kind of sick puppy you are...

Most of us guys and gals on this site enjoy watching porn. I watch it daily and have some favorite starlets that I like to follow.
I once read a report from a psychologist on the harmful effects of watching porn. She stated that it gives men a false picture of what true sex is and creates false expectations that they too, can have experiences like those depicted in porn videos, which are scenarios that most men will never experience. Well, that may be true for your average guy next door, but we're not him. We hobbyists actually get to live out our porn fantasies to whatever extent we choose or to what our finances limit us. We reward women who say 'Yes!'
Post your list. Keep it short. I'm sure you'll find plenty of guys who've already done what's in your bucket list and plenty of ladies who'll say, "sure, I can do that for you, hon!"

                                     'After all....it's just sex!'