I had a bunch of reviews spanning a couple years under my previous TER handle and felt flattered on the two occasions when ladies I had seen initiated contact to say they enjoyed my company and would like to see me again...

Hobbyist on here who PMed me and put me down and assumed things about me which were untrue. I responded to him with a few sweet words and politely corrected him ... He replied with an apology and said I handled myself with more class than he did. I would not call this guy a troll on here but he does go by an alias. I would like to see him for no other reason than to "show" him not just tell him how wrong about me he was. He knows who he is and I would offer 1/2 off or 2 for 1 (hours).  

Plus all the friends that I love to see and want to see again are regulars already.

I think many ladies provide personalized discounts to the gents they appreciate the company of. I'm guessing on large part (but not exclusively) to their frequency of visits IMO.

It is not right to presume that providers should willing give up their product for free. They work hard and have to endure far more than we do. I can be a fat slob and I wil be treated like a sexy beast. Now, have a parade of similar folks everyday and they all can come away with feeling great. That is hard work and not something to imagine will be given away.  

I'd like to dream, too, but it assumes a lot about something we have no right to give an opinion.

I could not agree more.  I have had a couple gals who have reached to me and said "hey...its been awhile and I Have sometime this week..."  Now, it is important to include some personal touch, but be given (even just het feeling) of being wanted to can really add to the experience.  And we are suckers for that sh*t!!