.....days that is ....ever get up and set out for a wonderful day of hobbying ahead....planned for days, even months in the making ?? I have been trying for several months now to meet a lovely lady!!!! and then "Shit happens"  and all the good intended plans and dreams fall thru. The long drive and wait for directions, the non answered rings and "this mail box is full!"  So where is this going you ask?
I am relatively new here and have had a grand time with some VERY special ladies and i like to pride myself to think i have hobbied well ...but is there a way for the guy to know ????  Did my glass eye and wooden leg offend anyone ? Was the breath and BO overwhelming to the point that the word went out on some site i do not know, that black balled my old and sagging balls?? ( i did read the mangrooming piece a few days ago and will admit that the waxing was quite invigorating once the right one stopped bleeding.) Is there a tineye for us guys that the providers hack into and read the crystal balls?? Or maybe the first time is supposed to be a hard one to get ....but why all the references and such if there is still so much worry?
Please do not get this wrong....... i have set up with some amazing ladies and had some awesome times and i realize that shit happens and things fall thru but is there a review site for the tc guy, and vorlon, and bosco and all the others that post.... even me, out there ???
My day got better i got to come here and read the shill friday and re-read Melissa's post about her mom.......and the street lady on the corner in downtown mpls, that i gave the flowers to, smiled so big i almost wanted to cry. Well maybe next time. have a great night y'all........i need to go and plan!!!!!!

So I take it that you don't know where the bleeding right testicle black list is?   Your not the guy that was a cane and weighs 600 pounds that I have heard about are you?

If your not on that list and you don't have a cane you should be fine on your next trip.

I don't know if it is that they overbook or are so flaky as to not follow through after their own confirmations, but I have had several where I get to the location and then get a NCNS.  Keep trooping; eventually you will make another good connection.

bitching about NCNS is of no use.

i know there was a list but how does one get on  OR off it for that matter ? and more important cuz i am not worrying about being on the black list ....how do you get on the good one?  do you have to pay off some gorgeous babe ? or just be real and hope they like you?
and no the cane is really a wooden leg holding up my fat 300 pound ass.
I am booked and just hoping now that my flight comes in ! thanks

it was not a NCNS problem, just too many last minute, something came up, guess i need to cancel...she was good about it, just caught me off guard and 90 miles from home with a load i was hoping to leave behind. so i just got on to vent and maybe lighten up the board. Call me stupid and i am not trying to call her out on here cuz i plan on TRYING to reschedule, her reviews do not show a history or a problem so i do not want to start something that may not be real, just this one grabbed my ego....which i probably needed.
and just writing this makes me feel better too. I will get back on the horse as gramps used to say.   Real post was to try and find out what the white list is all about!

Sooner or later it happens to all of us.  If you are talking about the TER White List, it is simply a provider giving a hobbyist a stamp of approval that other TER membes can see.  Some ladies accept them as a form of verification.

Search for my posts, I've manned up.

The hobby attracts some space cadets, is all.  All you can do is keep the arrangements clear on your end.  If the lady flakes, she flakes.  Cross her off your list and try someone else.  There's lots out there.

hey bad....please do not get this wrong ....i am not on this thread to bitch...the provider is a good one and it was a business decision on her part and that is cool ...i got on to vent for me and stir up the discussion and that said .......
what i really wanted to post was a back page ad ...like this :

Hey Ladies watch for the special 4 hands care.... from two of the hottest, the sweetest and most manly of men in minnesota ( ok old farts!)....in town for two days only!!!we will treat you right and leave with a smile on your face. special includes table shower and oily massage and you will be guaranteed to pop....multiple pops can be negotiated....
NEVER a NCNS and non rush on our side we may multiple book so call in quickly!

signed tc guy and hornbody....or whom ever of you guys wants to be my side kick
badbadger may be there to coach

Well said Mountingoat.  That is all I was trying to get across.

In my opinion if you are going to come on here and whine about how some lady stood you up, then its a waste of time for us if you don't share her identity.   There was a time when hobbyists used the board to share this kind of info.  Why is everyone so reluctant to tell it like it is.  The providers advertise, they make appointments, then fail to deliver.  Come on guys, lets start using TER as the BBB of the hobby industry and stop sugar coating things on the board and in reviews.