I don't see the wand as a replacement or a defeatist. I love women to bring things to the party. I probably should have just said that and left it as that. LOL I guess I was more or less saying I was so in-tuned with her and made her cum so many times and so well, the wand never got a chance to play. Am I tooting my own horn, yes I guess so, sorry. I need to learn a little restraint. I was proud of myself and I guess I just had to blurt it out. LOL You make a lot of good points on learning how to work with her on using one. I guess I just need some practice. :
Adult toys that is ... Do you like them? In session or on your own? For use on you or use on them? If a provider or client pulls out a toy or a few do you get nervous or excited?
I saved the best for last: What's your favorite toy? Any recommendations?
I wouldn't be nervous at all...excited as hell! I've never used them in my personal life or in my hobby life. I've always been curious about toys and wanted to use them on a girl but have never had the chance. I've always wanted to use a pearl rabbit in someone I once bought one of those things that looks like a pussy and is supposed to feel like one, but I broke it on the first try and it cut my penis.....it said one size fits all. and let me tell you...I am not packin a lot of heat. Im not sure if this counts but I also want to try a cock ring coworker of mine said they're fun.
Best visit started with these words. Have your way with me but no pain. I ended up tied to the bed, blind folded and many toys used. If your comfortable using then have at it. I'm open to it. On the flip side I'll use what every you want me to us just give me some instruction. I don't have any toys at home. Vibrating cock ring during BBBJ is FAVORITE.
Posted By: brilove
Adult toys that is ... Do you like them? In session or on your own? For use on you or use on them? If a provider or client pulls out a toy or a few do you get nervous or excited?
I saved the best for last: What's your favorite toy? Any recommendations?
given out about 20 toys in the last three years. in fact just last weekend I gave a lady a new toy. I always include batteries, and I don't give away any toys that make me feel... inadequate. I was a little nervous the first time but it worked out so well I decided to keep giving them out. I think half the ladies on this board have gotten toys from me.
Is a tie between either a vibrating butt plug or a vibrator in the love tunnel. I am more than happy to occupy the unused cavity, but alas it never lasts very long.
I would like to try a remote control vibrator and taking a provider out to dinner and intermittently "surprising her by turning it (and hopefully her) on.
I like it when ladies bring out the toy box. But in the majority of my meetings they have not been made part of the activities for whatever the reason. I generally follow her lead, but bringing out the toys really ups the excitement for me. If I had to pick one it would be the suction cup dildo that she rides.
Bottom line, though, my favorite toys are her lips, tongue, and hands and they're always part of the action so who's to complain?
I get SUPER excited when a client surprises me with a new toy as a gift or just brings one of their favorites. LOVE that!!
My personal favorite toy. well, if I had to pick JUST one, it would have to be my Magic Wand. However, if I were to Recommend one....... I love love love the PURE Njoy Metal G Spot Fun Wand. Can be used for girls AND boys. QUITE fun!!! Pair it with the Magic wand.....omg. ok, I have to go now....and um, well, ya know.
Posted By: brilove
Adult toys that is ... Do you like them? In session or on your own? For use on you or use on them? If a provider or client pulls out a toy or a few do you get nervous or excited?
I saved the best for last: What's your favorite toy? Any recommendations?
I knew I could count on you for a fabulous suggestion.
I love getting them as gifts as well (have gotten a few) ... The plug in wand is my fav but looking for a bit more adventure with less turbo power and that uses more elbow grease lol.
I've had and used my Njoy fun wand circa 2008 (see reviews). Every double and woman I've been with has also enjoyed my fun wand... So much so that they insist on having one of their own! As a door prize I awarded one to Sexxxy Jeanna at a party. In August she confided in me every time she uses it she thinks of me (how HAWT!). I also gifted one to Vivi Marie in 2011; this is the gift that keeps on giving !
I have tried various toys on me with mixed results... I have to be in the right mood, so it's best to just ask me if I am in that mood. Sometimes it has been so-so, but there have been a few times that have been terrific. The only recent toy time that was fantastic was with Leann, she used a small vibrating g-spot stimulator in and on me. I will leave it to her to describe what it was.
I have, in my "civie" life outside the hobby dabbled with toy DP... me in one opening and a toy in the other, and with some experimentation that has sometimes yielded great results as well. By far my favorite method for this is me in her rear, and her using a toy in her pussy, but intentionally using it to find "me" with it and stimulate me with it through the thin wall between the two.
Nice timing Bri. I just went on a shopping spree & added several items to my toy box that I'm dying to try with my boy toyzzz. Ya think that mailman is curious what that twinkle in my eye is all about? Hehe!
Off to buy an economy pak of AA batteries. Have an awesome holiday weekend! I know I sure will. Wee, hee!!!!!!!!!!!
I love to see a lady playing with them. But I'm not a big fan of using them on them. I would much rather do everything in my power to please them. I remember a recent visit with someone and she had pulled out the electric wand and put it aside for our fun time. But things went soo well and I did my job like a good boy and it never got turned on. LOL I have tried in the past, but I feel like an oaf and apprehensive about hurting someone with the hard ones.
...But things went soo well and I did my job like a good boy and it never got turned on.
I have never taken it personally when a lady has taken out a favorite toy.
For a lot of people, including me, the process of getting to orgasm requires the confluence of stimulation, pace, atmosphere, focus, muscle tension, hormones... There's a ton of shit that has to come together at the right time at the right place. Rather than seeing the magic wand as a symbol of my defeat as a partner, I tend to see it this way: 1. Our time together has gotten her riled up enough that she really wants to cum; 2. She really wants to share this intimate, vulnerable moment with me, rather than "slapping the clam" alone after I leave; 3. She has been so focused on pampering me that hasn't been able to make that inward focus that cumming often requires.
Posted By: smilin6969
I have tried in the past, but I feel like an oaf and apprehensive about hurting someone with the hard ones.
This could also be spun into a positive. If you are using a harder toy on her, then you have to be very attentive to her signals... Watching, listening, feeling if you are on a good spot or a bad spot... And I suspect that a gal looking down and seeing that you are totally engaged, totally tuned in, attentive to her signs, is probably going to ratchet things up a whole lot for her. I know for me, that feeling that she is mentally "locked on", when I can see and feel that she has the world tuned out and I just consume her awareness... There is nothing better, and the specific mechanics of what she is doing to me isn't really all that important. Probably would be the same for her.
I don't see the wand as a replacement or a defeatist. I love women to bring things to the party. I probably should have just said that and left it as that. LOL I guess I was more or less saying I was so in-tuned with her and made her cum so many times and so well, the wand never got a chance to play. Am I tooting my own horn, yes I guess so, sorry. I need to learn a little restraint. I was proud of myself and I guess I just had to blurt it out. LOL You make a lot of good points on learning how to work with her on using one. I guess I just need some practice. :
I love the added vibration I can actually feel from the Magic Wand as the gal uses it and we are in mish or doggy. A toy DP as mentioned by OmegaZap above is something that has crossed my mind as well.
Also, I would love to see a gal ride a Sybian... to see how she reacts to it. Any ladies out there have one?
I love the added vibration I can actually feel from the Magic Wand as the gal uses it and we are in mish or doggy. A toy DP as mentioned by OmegaZap above is something that has crossed my mind as well.
Also, I would love to see a gal ride a Sybian... to see how she reacts to it. Any ladies out there have one?
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