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Don't forget the size stereotypes (eom)
JustGopherIt 2 Reviews 1009 reads
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dkmanxxx1685 reads

Now I'm a white guy so it's never been an issue but I now see this requirement as much as no blocked calls on providers ads... why?

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mschambers1525 reads

When I began in this industry with an agency, I was not "allowed" to see African American men -probably because it was being run by one. I quickly changed this when I went independent because it was never my rule! Each lady does, however, have their own preference for who they see, just as you do as a client. Some reasons women avoid African American men include their reputation for trying to pimp a lady, not leaving a donation, haggling their donation, or being violent. Again, this is not my idea of African American men, but it is a connotation that they often deal with.

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Ball Turret1163 reads

Because you aren't intimidated by size or because you don't think it's true?

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MsDynamite1209 reads

To me it's both.

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mschambers1151 reads

A client *doesn't usually* reveal his size in an email, so intimidation is not a factor here. If everyone's email ended in (insert#)"cock (ie- joe6"[email protected]) that could be helpful to the ladies that do have a size limit... but what world is that in? You men know more about us and our sizes than we know about any of yours on a first date!! I say *doesn't usually* because someone has said so in the past, saying how small and easily they get off but that doesn't apply here.

I try not to believe stereotypes and have seen African Americans (civvies and clients alike) that fit the stereotype and those who do not, so I do not believe that stereotype across the board for EVERYONE, as it is not always true.... hence the word STEREOTYPE!


I invite men of all sizes. Everyone has a different experience with me, regardless of size. I do not have a maximum size unless you're going to the Greek islands, and that is by invitation ONLY (must be a smaller one - I don't like lots of junk in my trunk!)


I think in order to be professional one cannot choose a client based on race,gender,age, etc... or penis size... or stereotype. Other professionals don't, why should I? *my ass being the exception, I'm not a professional at that!*


PS this is NOT me, and all of these dicks in black are equal size to dicks I've seen in white....

Posted By: Ball Turret
Because you aren't intimidated by size or because you don't think it's true?

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JustGopherIt824 reads

Maybe I'm reading too many London Rayne posts. :)  Part of the reason I used the word "stereotype."  Obviously, all black men aren't hung like a horse and not all providers are scared of someone who is well endowed!

I work in the service industry and I've turned down business for TONS of different reasons.  I'm sure this industry is no different.  You own your own business and you have a right to choose your customers IMO.

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vorlon909 reads

I also believe that given the intimate nature of the service the ladies provide, they are free to place whatever limits they want on whom they see.

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MsDynamite865 reads

As Natalie said ladies have their preferences. But I will say this ; In my many years of providing More white and asian ( including from india) men have haggled my rates and/or shorted me than any other ethnicity. Also all AA men I've seen have tipped me at least 40% more at that.
Kinda strange how that is but don't mistake that as being biased.  That's just my observation.

-- Modified on 12/27/2012 5:29:42 PM

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macdaddy19441228 reads

the girls i see who will not see a black man list..arrogance..rudeness..bad hygiene and "too demanding" as the reasons why..no one tells them who to see and not to see.."its my body and i do what i want to" seems to fit...

Posted By: dkmanxxx
Now I'm a white guy so it's never been an issue but I now see this requirement as much as no blocked calls on providers ads... why?
-- Modified on 12/27/2012 7:55:34 PM

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Nago81242 reads

At least you know its not a police sting if they list "no black men".  In fact, if the provider lists "only black men" and it's in a third ring suburb you can bet its a sting.

Posted By: dkmanxxx
Now I'm a white guy so it's never been an issue but I now see this requirement as much as no blocked calls on providers ads... why?

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jerthebear1053 reads

Back in the day,we junior high school students had to swim nude at school.For the life of me,I can't imagine the reason for that!I'm white but most of the students at that school were black.I can tell you from experience that their size is purely a myth!They're no larger than anyone else.

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hardyharhar1025 reads

Was it a Catholic school? :)

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vorlon1019 reads

Why do you say that such an ad would be a sting?  What would be the purpose of specifying "only black men?"

Posted By: Nago8
At least you know its not a police sting if they list "no black men".  In fact, if the provider lists "only black men" and it's in a third ring suburb you can bet its a sting.
Posted By: dkmanxxx
Now I'm a white guy so it's never been an issue but I now see this requirement as much as no blocked calls on providers ads... why?

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Cropduster11107 reads

So guess what, modern science has found black guys no bigger than white guys while erect, but they do measure longer while flacid. Bet you didnt know that!

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MsDynamite1126 reads

well I happen to know a few black men with 3 inch cocks & a few Asian men with 9 inch cocks so there goes science & biology...
Often those "studies" are done in very controlled environments so to eliminate anomalies in order to achieve specific (desired) results. Bet most didn't know that either.
Either way I love ALL cocks. :D

Posted By: Cropduster1
So guess what, modern science has found black guys no bigger than white guys while erect, but they do measure longer while flacid. Bet you didnt know that!  

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MsChayse805 reads

How the question at hand turned into that Freudian thing. (size) I am impressed however it didn't turn into the usual train wreak. Gotta love Mn!

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Posted By: dkmanxxx
Now I'm a white guy so it's never been an issue but I now see this requirement as much as no blocked calls on providers ads... why?
Looking in bp just now and noticed its not the white providers saying no black men but the black providers. I some how doubt these girls have never slept with a black guy so I wonder why the stigma to black johns or experiences that make them say no.

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MsDynamite899 reads

I'm guessing it maybe the same as some Asian ladies are when they say no Asians.
Like possibly run into a cousin or other relative?  Could be wrong but it seems to make sense.

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vorlon879 reads

But I have had black providers tell me they avoid black clients for the same assortment of bad behaviors as mentioned previously in this thread.

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belindabell693 reads

They are some of my favorite and most fun clients.

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