This is what most of us ladies ponder when trying to communicate and/or open our hearts to 400 strangers.  

Welcome to the club Liz.  I think just about every lady who posts here has been bashed at one time or another by at least one non-supportive reader.  

You can keep reaching out to the 399 people out there that are kind and loving and ignore one ignorant fool or you can go somewhere else.  I hope you stay and keep allowing us to be a part of your life.  

Doorjammer, I read your other posts and it seems you have many issues best dealt with a psychologist.  

With that said, everyone have a wonderful St Pattys Day.  

Misty McGuire