New to the board and new to all of this. Because of that I am trying to figure out the best way to find a provider that will be open to a newbie. I have seen some posts that says to look for a provider open to newbies but I want to figure out the best way to get verified.
1. Check out the newbie board; lots of good info there 2. Get the VIP membership so you can see the review details and have access to the PM system 3. Spend some time learning how to use the search functions for both reviews and the discussion board so you can identify ladies you would be interested in seeing based on the criteria that matter most to you (ex: looks, menu, rates, etc.) 4. Figure out what kind of verification the ladies you would like to see require and how you can meet those requirements. Some ladies are very particular. Others are more flexible. It's OK to contact them about it if you are not sure; just remember to be discreet. Any explicit questions will likely get you disconnect or otherwise ignored. 5. Some ladies advertise here or on other sites that they are newbie friendly; keep an eye out for that. 6. Consider joining a site such as P411 that pre-screens potential clients. Some escorts will accept membership in such sites as satisfactory verification. 7. If you are still puzzled by something after having done research, please feel free to ask questions. I think for the most part we are willing to help out so long as we think you are not just freeloading on what others have learned. 8. Develop a bit of a thick skin; some people are going to be jerks regardless.
9. If an ad or offer looks TGTBT, it's TGTBT. 10. If you find yourself in any situation that doesn't feel quite right, trust your instincts and walk away.
It is my suggestion that newbies stick with the tried and true. If you are new, stick to ladies that have a page of reviews or more. When you learn the game a little better, then you can venture out into those ladies with fewer or no reviews. Same holds true with ladies that are new. Just seems to me that you all would have a better result learning from someone with experience. Two newbies ends in a train wreck more often than not.
Find a well reviewed lady and don't be afraid to pay. Not worrying about LE will make your first experience that much better, you'll be nervous enough as it is and a pro should be able to put you at ease.
I didn't know this until recently but Datecheck.com is a verification site which is free once a provider member of that site verifies your application. Go to the Join Now page (link below), click on Minnesota in Step 1, and then Step 2 has a pull down list which shows all of the Minnesota providers. I found one I had seen and she verified me and I had my free membership within a day. From there you will be able to get an appointment quite easily from many of those provider members. So my suggestion is to go there and identify a number of those ladies, check out their reviews on TER to see if they suit your needs, and then see what it takes for any of them to see you. Once you have seen one of them then you can get on Datecheck.
P411 is also well worth its membership cost. It has more local providers listed than even EROS or Cityvibe and many visiting providers post their schedules there as well. The benefits of either Datecheck or P411 is that all the providers have been vetted to be legitimate by having a history of decent reviews or have been approved by client members. And providers give preference to those members because 1) you have been verified by another provider, and 2) they don't need to spend time checking your references.
Not all providers feel these verification sites are enough and may still require other things.
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