Minnesota
A new category: "DIT" 
But, in the past year, mainly while traveling elsewhere, I've discovered a variation on this that I'll call "DIT": "Do It Together." In this situation, an erotic massage session has included the lady's working Mr. Happy, but, while he's been very appreciative, he's seldom responded with a climax. So, the lady has invited me to join her in working on Mr. Happy. In most cases, then, he HAS responded and there has been a very happy ending to the session. So, for this "old guy," who climaxes only rarely, "DIT" has been a wonderful way to end a session. I've not felt self-conscious "helping" myself, since the lady is also helping out, not sitting back and watching... or pleasuring herself at the same time. She's been "in there," working hard, and totally engaged. It's a very erotic experience, and so I propose that "DIT" take its rightful place among all the other categories we discuss. (Note: I'm not proposing this as a *formal* category that TER should add. I'm simply opening up a satisfying variation on the mostly UN-satisfying "DIY" experience.) How's that sound? og -- Modified on 7/8/2013 2:03:24 PM
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og -- Modified on 7/8/2013 2:03:24 PM-- Modified on 7/8/2013 2:03:49 PM
We all know the drawbacks of the dreaded "DIY" massage session. It's been amply discussed, and Minnesota seems to be a hotbed of this peculiar approach. Many of the ladies who offer "DIY" seem to think that they somehow are "legal" if the hobbyist is the only one actually touching his private parts, regardless of what else goes on in the session. I've never accepted a lady's invitation to pleasure myself while she watched; I can do that at home at a lot less cost, as many have said.
But, in the past year, mainly while traveling elsewhere, I've discovered a variation on this that I'll call "DIT": "Do It Together." In this situation, an erotic massage session has included the lady's working Mr. Happy, but, while he's been very appreciative, he's seldom responded with a climax. So, the lady has invited me to join her in working on Mr. Happy. In most cases, then, he HAS responded and there has been a very happy ending to the session.
So, for this "old guy," who climaxes only rarely, "DIT" has been a wonderful way to end a session. I've not felt self-conscious "helping" myself, since the lady is also helping out, not sitting back and watching... or pleasuring herself at the same time. She's been "in there," working hard, and totally engaged.
It's a very erotic experience, and so I propose that "DIT" take its rightful place among all the other categories we discuss. (Note: I'm not proposing this as a *formal* category that TER should add. I'm simply opening up a satisfying variation on the mostly UN-satisfying "DIY" experience.)
How's that sound?
og
-- Modified on 7/8/2013 2:03:24 PM -- Modified on 7/8/2013 2:03:49 PM
But, in the past year, mainly while traveling elsewhere, I've discovered a variation on this that I'll call "DIT": "Do It Together." In this situation, an erotic massage session has included the lady's working Mr. Happy, but, while he's been very appreciative, he's seldom responded with a climax. So, the lady has invited me to join her in working on Mr. Happy. In most cases, then, he HAS responded and there has been a very happy ending to the session.
So, for this "old guy," who climaxes only rarely, "DIT" has been a wonderful way to end a session. I've not felt self-conscious "helping" myself, since the lady is also helping out, not sitting back and watching... or pleasuring herself at the same time. She's been "in there," working hard, and totally engaged.
It's a very erotic experience, and so I propose that "DIT" take its rightful place among all the other categories we discuss. (Note: I'm not proposing this as a *formal* category that TER should add. I'm simply opening up a satisfying variation on the mostly UN-satisfying "DIY" experience.)
How's that sound?
og
-- Modified on 7/8/2013 2:03:24 PM -- Modified on 7/8/2013 2:03:49 PM
I'm fine if others like DIY; no judgment there. But, I'd feel too self-conscious, enjoying myself by myself. So, this "DIT" has been a fun discovery. A team effort!
-- Modified on 7/10/2013 1:34:55 PM
-- Modified on 7/10/2013 1:34:55 PM