For those ladies and gents who have done this what was your take on the experience?  Clearly the interest level in your date plays a part but was it worth it, enjoyable, or time that could have been better utilized naked and horizontal.  I found it to be eye opening.  Usually we all see each other in the same environment.  Meaning a specific in-call, scantily clad outfits, lots of sexy talk leading to the inevitable outcome ten minutes from then.  Out at a restaurant the attire is different, sex talk is limited because of those around you, you're in public with someone that you engage in illegal activities with, and even seeing someone eating and drinking for the first time seemed surreal.  Odd as it may sound I actually found it to be more intimate than just having sex.  The bonus being that the sex after was even better than usual.  Not sure if that's because I viewed her differently after that or because I had to stare at her fully clothed for an hour before getting to the desert portion of our time.

I find them to be so much more intimate than the norm of meeting at an in/outcall & rolling in the hay. Great conversation, the ongoing flirt. You get my meaning.

Some of the best times I have EVER had were on dinner dates. You do have to be with the right person though. I have also found that it is better to "play" first and then go out. The dinner seems so much more relaxing and you can enjoy your time with a special person.

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It's a nice change from the usual .

They are great times if possible I also like to play a bit before dinner it seems take the edge off and lite the candles for the evening ahead.My regular and I go out from time to time and hey we both enjoy a good meal talk laugh . I enjoy having a hot chick with me to show off their is a age difference and a chance you run into who ever but neither one of much care about what they may think cause we are just two people having fun and enjoying each other's company.Went to Vegas with her had some really great dinners along with everything else the restaurant's were the bomb. So if you both have the time break bread together even if it's take out or you cook cause their is slot of enjoyment conversation laughter and happiness that come out of it.The gal I see is special in many ways to me I hope you all give this a try with right person.

It's even more enjoyable that way.

I prefer cocktail and dinner dates; I have structured my business to cater to men that like to enjoy all sides of a woman not just between the sheets.  

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I have never had a "dinner date" with a provider.  I have however found that  a lot are like anyone else and enjoy having someone to talk to over a meal. I have eaten off the clock with 5 ladies and had 3 others say they would be happy to do it.  And yes each and every one of them have insisted on paying every other time.  Sometime I think a little friendship and respect go a long way.   bigdell

There is something especially intimate about eating out together. It's a great feeling knowing people look at you and think, that lucky SOB, she's to good for him. I enjoy being able to connect on a different level and getting to know each other a little better. Sometimes it leads to doing things you never would have expected.

Dinner dates and over nights Two of my favorite things .

I love dinner dates if it's with the right person.  The conversation, banter, humor and even debates are a blast and intellectually engaging.  You know your clicking when 2 hours pass and it seems like only 10 minutes have gone by.

...with most of these posts! I really enjoig dinner dates I think its a great way to really get to know one another without the temptation to get to the "good stuff"

How sexy they are is one thing, but how good of a conversationalist they are?