I understand that GFE is an illusion that most ladies try to achieve or master. But what does it for you gentlemen? Where does it start? Before you meet the lady, maybe in trying to set an appt? Did she reply or answer in a short period or did it take a few days. Or is it when she opens the door & in how she greets you? Some might say it's in her BCD skills. I know a lot of you will agree that attitude has a great deal to do with it, but what make the "E" in GFE for you? The reason I AM asking this question is that I want to change my way of thinking about this term. I have had gentlemen say that I provide GFE, but I don't totally agree. I usually don't know what the gentleman likes before I meet him. For example, I like to play romantic music (mostly jazz), a lite spray of vanilla in the room, a nice beverage to drink for him & sexy lingerie. But what I don't know is, does he like jazz, does vanilla irritate his nose, what's his favorite drink, maybe he doesn't like lingerie. I've tried asking some of these questions & for the most part they go unanswered. So I just do & use what I like.
I know that everyone has their different aspects on what a GFE should provide, act, wear & her attitude, but a few have said that some ladies who say they are GFE don't provide the experience that he seeks. With so many different men's thinking of what a GFE should be, is there a main thing or skill that does it for you?
GFE is more of an attitude then a certain type of service. It takes a genuine person to do that and it helps if the provider enjoys her work. Enjoying this type of work for a provider must be tough unless she is a real nympho.Too much of a good thing is never good regardless of wh you are.
For me it's about being genuine, honest and finding a connection. No matter how brief it is. The connection has to both ways. There has to be a level of attraction both physically and emotionally.
I have met very sexy and good looking providers who would have turned heads in any city, but the experience was less than satisfying on an emotional level.
At the end of the day it is a business and both sides are trying to get the best out of it. It is all a matter of how to define "the best".
For me it starts when we meet and doesn't end until we part. I've had a number of them and if I had to pick one common theme it was that it was clear they had fun and were interested in me having fun and were not in a rush to be done. They enjoyed their work and it showed in nice conversation before and after and intimate conversation during.....
Any jitters I had about safety were quickly eased and then they made sure I felt great!
You sound like you are doing everything right to me, maybe some of your clients just aren't chatty. I think some might be concerned about safety, so anything you can do to insure they know things are safe and this is going to happen might help them ease up.
If you are interested in what kind of music I like and concerned that I might be bothered by a smell--asking shows me you are interested in my having a good time!
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