I am so intrigued. I just learned about the way women and gay men are finding intimate touch and more. I had heard of cuddle parties but had no idea how deep it goes. I have met some women lately through my networking at the pool that are hiring men to cuddle, massage (vagina and ass included), and have sex under the soft fluffy and innocent cover of professional cuddlers. Have I been living under a rock? Do you fellas do that too? I have a client I used to see who has decided to become a provider for male couples...big bucks and I am cheering him on.
I added an account and had to apply to be a cuddler, lol. I think I am qualified? For me it might be a great way to do more intimate coaching around sex and relationships. I love the idea of providing touch and vulnerability to people that aren't confident enough to jump to escorting. Is this the new gateway drug to the hobby post Covid, post Baby Boomer Gen? Curious on your thoughts...
For Boomers and Gen X is would a great gateway to the hobby.
Speaking for myself, born in 1966, I would never be comfortable cuddling with a man and any woman that close is going to get me hard. Maybe the kids can get that close and not want to go the next logical step, but most people I know use massage as a gateway to sex. Providers will have to extra careful and there is an anti-sex vibe with the hard-core cuddle crowd.
To me it sounds like a taking a different path to the same ultimate destination. If it works better for some people, great. Personally, I prefer the cuddling to be after the sex.
Now, many years ago, I was at a festival after hours and some people suggest having what they called a "poodle pile." Basically, It was just all of us lying together kind of like a group of dogs might. Nothing sexual at all and everyone remain fully clothed. It was OK but nothing I would look to keep doing.
Professional cuddlers have been around for awhile. A quick search found a WSJ article from 2015 (need a subscription) and other articles, one linked below. In a world starved for human touch after the pandemic, it should take off like a rocket. And yes, I think you’re highly qualified.
Honestly, I love professional cuddlers. I recently had a session with someone for 2 hours. Nothing sexual involved and ot was just comforting being held and holding someone else. It was our first session and I fell asleep for like 30 minutes cause it was so relaxing. I wasn't looking for anything sexual but it definitely helped that she was very attractive. I might of popped a small erection during it but reading the rules I moved myself away a bit to reposition so it wasn't touching her.
It was a good time and sometimes just relaxing close with someone and not expecting anything sexual to come out of it is nice. It was also the same price as the massage girls that I have been seeing as well but you get more time. Honestly, to each their own. I wouldn't hunt for a cuddler to get sexual with at the end similar to the mongers who like visiting AMP after AMP to try and get something extra.
To me, cuddling is just an on-ramp to sex. So is dating, for that matter. Unfortunately this ends up in long term relationships that end up feeling like prison -- aka marriage. . Of course everyone is wired different. But I'm just after the sex.
Sensual touch doesn't have to be massage. I'll touch a man anywhere that makes him feel pleasure and connection with clothes or without. I'm always told how good I feel to hold and how soft my skin is. Come on come all...let's get our cuddle on. Oh boy I just thought how interesting that would be for a Meet and Greet!!!!
This is real thing. I’ve used this service a few times and has been enjoyable. Granted during Covid it went to mainly virtual and I passed on that during this time period. It seams to have opened up to in person. Most providers are strictly cuddlers as per rules of site but you can find those that go over the line
Yes, cuddling is cool. Like most TER types, I would want it to go much further than cuddling with any provide. Frankly, at your suggested rate of $250 I would expect it to go WAY further than a fully clothed hug. Not a hater; your ad is very appealing.
I have quite a few appointments lined up and I'll share my observations after I experience a few. I am looking at my price point from the place of cuddle counseling. I counsel people around sex and intimacy with clothes on and in a Perkin's for less but not much. I'm just trying it out. Chances are a Karl (male Karen) will report me and I'll get banned in time anyway. Maybe I help a few fellas out and make some new cuddle buddies at the same time.
Cuddlecomfort admins/community will ban anyone with 'findable' links to adult profiles. It's not against the site rules to be an escort but if they find out, they'll ban you permanently. Kind of a don't ask, don't tell approach. Might want to change your CC cuddle name as it's similar to your provider name.
Never talk about extras, lingerie, sensual touch in chat on the CC site. Chat enough to book the first session (they get 15%) then move to text for scheduling and future sessions. Good luck!
I don't fall asleep easily around people I don't know but I fell asleep with my head in a provider's lap as she just ran her fingers along my scalp and through my hair. It was a longer FS date but talk about total relaxation. She could have let me sleep the last 90 minutes but I appreciated that she woke me up for one more round. If more providers offered just cuddling at a lower rate, I'd consider it.
Dear Jersey Girl: Yes,I think that you are qualified. In fact,you are over-qualified! You are the epitome of the GFE experience. Personally, I couldn't just cuddle with you,I would need to be more intimate. You are such a great kisser! (among other things). I hope that it doesn't detract from seeing you again soon and to relish the Jersey Girl experience. I am sure that whatever you pursue,you will excel at it.
I had an account on there since December 2020 and just recently had my account closed (like today). It was fun while it lasted. And I agree with everyone else, you should change your username because they are using that as a way to match things up.
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