I hear ya on that one! I have had a couple of experiences where they were genuine, sincere, and  
Human. And Fun!

ROFLMAO

and we thankyou for your lack of patronage

Amen brother..eom

Believe me, I have been around for a good many years, I know all about BSC and Man Hater type providers! There is one in particular, who still reads the boards, ( UTR / Retired ? )and attempts to convince me that I am a Loser, LOL  That is a kettle calling the Pot black. If I am a loser, big fucking deal, I am not trying to impress any ladies, I just want to have a good time, great sex, and be happy! and keep it Real. Is that asking to much ?

bingo- couldn't have said it better myself.

I know the BSC ones and others will still be here, and I encourage them to continue to show their true colors.it helps the hobbyist in his selection.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=21&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=customer%20base&SearchType=1&DayFrom=9999&DayTo=0&MessageID=85439&frmSearch=1#85439

That is where the term "Train Wreck" came from!

And it still continues to this day...

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=165383&boardID=21&page=#165383  


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Was there anything anywhere in my post that told ANYONE to STFU?  And you need to check your premise.  There were no threats, veiled or otherwise, especially against anyone in particular.  Yes, I have made decisions not to see women here based on what they display in the forums and the reverse is true.  I've seen women based on how they carry themselves here.

The person I had in mind while I wrote that actually was the opposite of what I was writing.  A very helpful person to provider and hobbyist alike that as far as I can tell has always stayed above the fray.

And no.. hating on EITHER side isn't right.. But, carry on I'm sure you have some damsels to save.  Just make sure you have your assistant clapping the coconuts together.

Re: I think im in love... will you be my Valentine?

I just sent this in a message to someone ,, they are my words so I will post them here because I feel it is relevant...  

"To be honest, I hope more providers start speaking up more about bad behavior..  
Im a feminist ,, that doesnt mean I hate men,, I hate misogyny and the idea that hobbyist think they call the shots in this industry.. so I am more than happy to engage in a healthy debate about it,, which 9 times out of 10 ends up with  a bunch of grown men acting like highschool bully jocks,, and then put down other hobbyists for disagreeing with them...  
lets be honest shall we, they wouldnt speak to their mothers, wives, girlfriends, aunts, sisters like that.. they probably wouldnt even say those things to the face of a complete stranger who was a female..  
So, why is it ok to speak to Escorts like that?  
Just because we are in the profession we are doesnt mean we deserve less respect..  
So I like to think I set an example of standing up for that ideology.. "

I take a very good look at my work before I post it and I edit it and tone it down,,  
I know suprizing right? You get the toned down version..  

And if anyone really follows and reads my posts,, they will see that I stay away from using vulgar language,, I typically stick with Douchebag, or jerk..  
I think alot more providers need to start standing up for themselves versus acting like hobbyists themselves..  

I will question any hobbyist who does not take no for an answer..  
What hobbyists ignore is the fact that violent crimes against providers in the last 3 years has increased dramatically. The reports of abuse, viol
When a civvie woman I attacked, raped, abused etc, it is addressed immediately , when it happens to women in the sex industry it is snubbed.. furthermore there have been several cases where the woman not only was snubbed but then they are treated as criminals themselves..  
We cant go to the police and say "the guy who I had an appointment with tonight for sex raped me"  

Now you might you say to yourselves as hobbyists " I wouldnt never " and " Just because this or that happened doesnt mean Im one "  

The problem is that your "fellow" hobbyists are, and the behavior is getting worse ,, not better..  
And I dont care if I sound like a repetitive fucking cunt about it ,,,  
I will put you on blast, if you cant learn the common courtesy of accepting the word NO..  
and No I will not STFU to appease  you because you want to only address the "fun and fucking and sex and all the great things about this industry"  

Most hobbyist dont think about anything other then the who, what, where and when they are going to collect their next showpiece for their review resume.. Henceforth why its referred to as "The Hobby" ..
Ladies are collector items ...  

When you get pissed because a provider turned you down and you come on the board to beat that provider up over it , it says to me that you dont know how to accept the word no gracefully, and versus being a gentleman about it and simply moving on , you would find a way to passive aggressively brow beat a provider publicly about it.. and to me thats a form of abuse  
Names may not be mentioned but there is always backchanneling and private messaging..  

And then shaming the provider because she stood up for herself ?  
And then shaming a hobbyist because he sticks up for her?  

"You should have just kept your mouth shut" I believe is the quote I saw..  

Wow..  

Real Men , know how to treat a woman regardless of the job she holds,, and they are consistent across the board,,  

I say again, I doubt that most of you would speak to the women in your civvie lives like this , and use your feigned sexurity web blanket to act out in a way you would never dream of acting publicly..  
Some of you are such cowards about your bad behavior  and fear of repercussions that you go as far as to hide behind an alias ..  
Its funny how you accuse certain providers of being haters and damaged goods,, when alot of hobbyists have some hole within themselves they cant seem to fill and use this industry as a bandaid for their lack of self esteem.. Your lives have hit a plateau and therefore you spend $150-$600 for an hour with a pretty girl who makes you feel good about yourself again, because your wife or girlfriend isnt enough , or you're lonely and in NEED of companionship and then you get to jock talk about it on a review board and show off your feigned male prowess...  

And then turn around and claim we're the damaged goods ? lol

Please allow me to return that thankyou..
Everytime one of you hobbyists decides to put your douchebag asscap on and let it out on the boards and talks to a provider in your elitest douchebag tone, I know there are several ladies including myself who quietly put you on a DNS list and make a note about it , I know that the more of an asshole you act like on the board to others that you limit yourself as well ... I know that its a two way street..  
And thats why some of you hide behind alias's because you know the provider pool you select from would grow much much smaller because of your jackass behavior on the boards..  
Thats why you dont see me telling hobbyists to STFU, because the more you talk like an ape the worse you look, the worse you look , the less quality providers want to see you...  

Im perfectly happy being blacklisted by a certain element of hobbyists on this board because of my attitude and how I dont play well with others,,  
Because the very thought of having to entertain a coward for an hour literally makes my skin crawl and my stomach turn... and futhermore, as Slinky put it ,, the boys who say that are the same ones who wouldnt see me anyways, so really there are no tears to shed..

My business isnt hurt by it, because the clients who see me , like the sass
And because the hobby community is a very small and adolescent piece of the client pie..  

Be Safe and Stay Warm...  
Love Always,  

~Cat xoxo

What an -artistic (humor, valid points)  and
provocative (telling it like it is & getting specific) post! I sir, am impressed!! =)

"And remember when I moved in you
The holy dove was moving too
And every breath we drew was Hallelujah"

Dirtyjesus has lost any connection to any human contact beyond his foreskin. Cohen puts these words for him, "I couldn't feel, so I tried to touch"

Why does he post here?  
  Not to hobby. He is dragging the offerings of crack moms.  
  Maybe for some response to confirm that he exists at all. But he is so far gone that he is invisible as a human being.  Pfft!

Never had anything good to say about Woman ? Ever ?
Gasp! He Posts under an Alias ? As usual the argument presents itself, Do tell us sir, What is your Real Legal Birth Name ? yes You bird brain, first, last and middle too! and while we are at it, throw
in your SSN as Well.

Minn4evr, of course you don't know me, what I am about, and so on.  However, I have been reading, commenting, and had been participating on these boards almost since day one.
Sonny, let me bring you up to speed, back when you were reaching around to wipe your ass, and your finger slipped through the toilet paper, and you get all excited and exclaimed  that you got a piece of ass ! I was doing point man missions, and putting my money
where my mouth is. By Posting accurate, Fair, and Honest Reviews!
There are Many providers, who got their very first review from none other than me, and while these
providers have moved on, in some cases their reviews still stand, as a testament to their Success in this business world.

If I were to inform you of whom I am referring to, You may be a bit more reserved in spewing out
your observations based upon what you have seen recently.

In one of my most recent replies, I stated that I have had the opportunity to meet some very wonderful, and Honest and Real providers. does that count as a thumbs up for the opposite sex ?
Where credit is due, it shall be given.

As I can recall, I have posted negative comments, toward the opposite sex, where I perceived
of an injustice having taken place, No more No less.
If a provider has been jerked around, by a Gasp ! MAN. I would call it like I see it, and post fairly if it is clear cut that she has had an injustice committed against her.

Lets get one thing straight, I am No White Knight, nor will I ever be.
However, I am No Black Knight, I don't belong to any Woman hating club, and I don't Play the role of a woman beater as well. But if someone crosses a boundary, I have no issue with having a dislike of that individual.

If I were to let out my past handle, then yes, you could go and read the hundreds of reviews that were posted, and you could then read the many posts that I have contributed useful and constructive information on a wide range of subjects.

Suffice to say, You are not going to get to know that past handle, because it is not necessary of me to share any information with you, As you don't have a need to know. I am Not Active in the Hobby, other than getting entertained by this board. LOL

As for the my recent opinions, Hey Sucker, Did I not say, A Guy needs to Vent sometimes !
and did I state fairly, that Mindy posted in rebuttal, of the events ? as a measure of sharing her side of the story.
O Yea, Stories! His side, Her side, and then there is the Truth!  
Are you siding with anybody in particular ? and if so, I then would guess that you have NSA capacity, where you can read every email, and hear every phone conversation ? and you can see every action, cause you have an eye in the sky drone ?  

Did I also say, that things spiraled out of control, and that the OP did not desire for that to happen in my opinion ? and it was all because of an Misunderstanding.

Now are we Clear about things ?  
Let me inquire of you, What was your intent on making this post ? To stir up some shit ?
Or did you need to share your disdain of Me, DJ, and whomever else ?
Just what have you contributed, that is constructive, objective, or within your control ?

Thanks for sharing your opinion, however, you have no control nor no relevant information on any given subject.  
While your comments have a ring of truth about them, You miss one very important aspect.
This is a board for Entertainment! I don't find your posts entertaining, nor objective, nor  
informative enough in areas where I want to be Informed, But I do find you entertaining to a point,  
and so, I will re read your post, and chuckle just like I did with the first read. LO

This is the true purpose the board serves... A place to witness the wheels come off the providers mental-wagon when they hit the 10,000-cocks swallowed mark...

And the feeling is mutual, I'm sure.