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Class vs cash
brilove See my TER Reviews 1361 reads
posted
1 / 15

Saw this on another board ... Thought it was interesting.  

"I spotted a particular post in a thread I read about a month ago that brought up an interesting point about class vs. cash. It was referring to provider price tags and if  higher donation requests always automatically mean you'll be meeting the perfect lady.    
 
I'm wondering how gentlemen define class with regard to a provider?  
Do cash and class always correlate?"  

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DJ1985 21 Reviews 891 reads
posted
2 / 15

You can't buy class. It's all about the individual and not related at all to the fare. Someone at a high price point can be so full of herself you want to grab the cash and walk out. A higher dollar provider I once saw, spent half our time telling me what a Rock Star she is and that guys almost line up just to see her walk by. She was by far the least classy woman I ever had the displeasure of spending time with. I have also met several just starting out, rock bottom pricing that carried themselves with such class I would have liked to spend the whole weekend with them. But it also often goes the other way too.

GaviaImmer 566 reads
posted
3 / 15

In fact it is almost the opposite with not all but some. A lady might seem classy on the outside in the presence of others or during a date but when one takes a look at all the drama associated with them that takes place behind the scenes, that is not what I would call classy. Of course, much of such drama is usually known via back channel but never becomes public.

One would think a $600/hr model lady lives a perfect provider life (I am not referring to personal life here) but you would be amazed at the the stuff that goes on behind the scenes only a few are aware of. On the other hand a $400/hr really hot lady is absolutely perfect, the epitome of what one would define as classy and no drama whatsoever. I have seen a few ladies' like them.

I am speaking in generalities here and not referring to any specific lady or ladies.

For me class would mean a lady is professional, articulate, educated, discreet, well mannered, dressed for the occasion with side of naughtiness and no behind the scenes drama with stuff like references, money issues, unnecessary emails/texts etc. This is not a complete list but you get the idea.

superski 15 Reviews 563 reads
posted
4 / 15

Class vs Cash rolls off the tongue well, but I think quality vs cash is more accurate. After all some days you don't want classy, maybe slutty/trampy is what your looking for. Regardless, you want quality for the $'s you spend.  

No matter what I'm looking for on a particular hobbying visit I've found that generally the more I spend the better the experience. To a point, I'd argue I could have an amazing 2 hr experience with a companion at $500-600 vs 800-1000+ same time period. I'd have a hard time rationalizing that added cost. Unless maybe your with a pornstar then I guess your paying the celebrity surcharge.
   
Really comes down to what you want out of the hobby and quality comes in many different forms and experiences.

happy hobbying

DonDosEquis 13 Reviews 660 reads
posted
5 / 15

I'm mixed on this topic.  I've never seen anyone a an extremely low price point, so I can't answer in that regard, but the least classy provider I've ever seen was also the lowest priced one.  Still, that's just anecdotal, and doesn't prove anything.  Most of the providers I've met are around the same price level, and most have been classy.  However, there is some variety,includng a few who are clearly not classy, which leads me to the same point most posters here are making:  there's probably no meaningful correlation.

Wow, that was a lot of words to say "I really don't know"!

Sailana 530 reads
posted
6 / 15

For example, some of the classiest providers I've met are also some of the lowest priced indie providers I've met. I've paid a lot more and found a lot less class. I consider myself very lucky to have met several ladies in the hobby who're some of the classiest people I know.

Class is an attribute of the person, not of the price they choose to charge for their services.

How do I define class for a provider? The same as I'd define class for anyone. The most important thing IMO is consideration for others--treating everyone with dignity and respect.  

Rudyard Kipling said that class "can walk with kings and keep its virtue and talk with crowds and keep the common touch."  Maybe the best definitions of class I've seen, author unknown, is :

“Class never runs scared. It is sure-footed and confident, and it can handle whatever comes along. Class has a sense of humor. It knows that a good laugh is the best lubricant for oiling the machinery of human relations. Class never makes excuses. It takes its lumps and learns from mistakes. Class knows that good manners are nothing more than a series of small sacrifices and minor inconveniences. Class bespeaks an aristocracy unrelated to ancestors or money. Some extremely wealthy people have no class at all, while others who are struggling to make ends meet are loaded with it. Class is real. You can't fake it. Class is comfortable in its own skin. It never puts on airs. Class never tries to build itself up by tearing others down. Class is already up and need not attempt to look better by making others look worse. Class can walk with kings and keep its virtue and talk with crowds and keep the common touch. Everyone is comfortable with the person who has class because he is comfortable with himself. If you have class, you've got it made. If you don't have class, no matter what else you have, it won't make up for it.”

MsChayse 499 reads
posted
7 / 15

Posted By: Sailana
For example, some of the classiest providers I've met are also some of the lowest priced indie providers I've met. I've paid a lot more and found a lot less class. I consider myself very lucky to have met several ladies in the hobby who're some of the classiest people I know.  
   
 Class is an attribute of the person, not of the price they choose to charge for their services.  
   
 How do I define class for a provider? The same as I'd define class for anyone. The most important thing IMO is consideration for others--treating everyone with dignity and respect.  
   
 Rudyard Kipling said that class "can walk with kings and keep its virtue and talk with crowds and keep the common touch."  Maybe the best definitions of class I've seen, author unknown, is :  
   
 “Class never runs scared. It is sure-footed and confident, and it can handle whatever comes along. Class has a sense of humor. It knows that a good laugh is the best lubricant for oiling the machinery of human relations. Class never makes excuses. It takes its lumps and learns from mistakes. Class knows that good manners are nothing more than a series of small sacrifices and minor inconveniences. Class bespeaks an aristocracy unrelated to ancestors or money. Some extremely wealthy people have no class at all, while others who are struggling to make ends meet are loaded with it. Class is real. You can't fake it. Class is comfortable in its own skin. It never puts on airs. Class never tries to build itself up by tearing others down. Class is already up and need not attempt to look better by making others look worse. Class can walk with kings and keep its virtue and talk with crowds and keep the common touch. Everyone is comfortable with the person who has class because he is comfortable with himself. If you have class, you've got it made. If you don't have class, no matter what else you have, it won't make up for it.”

cheyen 74 Reviews 470 reads
posted
8 / 15

In any business relationship there is an exchange.  That trade is mostly financial for the lady and mostly entertainment for the boys but it is a business.  Like your favorite restaurant or retail store when we shop there we are helping the store owner.  In my personal life I like the fact that I am able to help the shop owner or the service provider who could use the business.  
 In this case there are ladies with stunning good looks that allow then to charge a fee that could be a multiple of the average.  Others who are just as kind and giving who could not charge $500 and expect to busy.  With ter reviews I am able to do a little homework and find wonderful providers that are not super models but just a beautiful as a person.  I know I am a little weird, I have accepted that over the years but doesn't make sense to have fun and help someone who could really benefit from the business.  
 I have met stunning ladies and others who may not get a lot of #10 model material ratings.  I feel considerably less selfish when I am able to have a great time with a lady who could use the money to keep the rent paid.  It is not a charity thing and it is not about the price really, with few exceptions the ladies I have met give so much I like to feel like I am able to give something back. "weird" I know, I have met ladies who advertise a $100 'special' and left a $100 tip because she deserved $200.  For me that is more fun than spending an hour with a $500 provider who will not remember my name.  Just say'en

mn6610 11 Reviews 544 reads
posted
9 / 15

I don't usually go for the blonde with big fake tits, I prefer smaller natural girls that are also there to have a good time.  I totally get why some guys are attracted to the "pornstar" look but i would rather pay more for a girl that is in the business for the right reasons and can give me a different experience than I've ever had before.  

Class can be faked, but not for long.  Luckily I've only seen one girl long retired that thought she was doing me a favor.

vorlon 119 Reviews 672 reads
posted
10 / 15

I'd say there is a general correlation but it isn't even close to being true all the time.

brilove See my TER Reviews 408 reads
posted
11 / 15

Thank you ... I absolutely love that ... But just remember the lower price tag automatically doesn't mean they need the money more ... Nor does it mean they have less class ... Maybe they don't know their worth!  

In the end ... Its all about supply and demand. Some only see a few a month so they can and may charge a bit more ... Some get business out of popularity ... Some could charge more because they are well worth it ... Different strokes for different folks right?  

Damn, I love this job! ;)

tomtom2013 18 Reviews 551 reads
posted
12 / 15

I have 2 favorite providers who are far south of the $300 price point that so many of the ladies seem to be at these days.  both of these ladies are friendly, have great attitudes, and make sure each session I have with them is a good one.   both are classy as hell in my book.  however, I know from experience that many of the lower priced providers in the area seem to have almost no class.  I guess its just the nature of the beast.   one of these days I intend to sample Portia so I can see what it feels like to be in the presence of 'sexy class'....  ;-)

cheyen 74 Reviews 487 reads
posted
13 / 15

I hope I was clear on this.  I did not mean that a higher price is not as nice or that a lower price is not "classy".  If your customers are OK with your price and offering then your offering is what it should be.  My point was that many of the ladies who for there own reasons offer a lower price are really great ladies.  the benefit of TER is we can share good experiences and by doing that help the wonderful ladies who deserve kudos for the gifts they offer.  This format allows us to judge not the  price of the offer but by the content of the character. with apologies to Dr. K :(

OmegaZap 7 Reviews 483 reads
posted
15 / 15

I am thinking that maybe there's a reversed cause and effect here.

A women doesn't better suit my tastes because she is more expensive.

Rather, I may be inclined to pay a little more to see someone I think will suit my tastes

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