Some would say if one has a mistress he wouldn't need this site or providers, but....Does any married guy on here have a mistress? I, like probably 99% of you would like a hot little college age cutie that I could see on a regular basis (2x per month) for a rub and tug, BJ and whatever else she would be willing to do. In return, I would provide her with some spending money. I am considering advertising on Craigslist or Backpage for a mutually exclusive arrangement for a gal interested in making a few extra bucks a month but doesn't want to be a full fledge escort, but basically wants a sugar daddy. Has anyone ever tried CL or BP for this? And don't worry girls, even if I did have a regular arrangement with someone, I woud still want to see the pros on occasion. Feel free to PM me.
...I had a delightful arrangement with a grad student who called herself Hayden. She advertised on EROS, and generated a lot of controversy on this board by some comments she made (search under author "hydnjoe" about 1200 days back). It came about that I became her only client, and we had a lot of fun, so I guess you could say she was my mistress. A lot more than rub & tug, but less than I'd really like - we reached an accommodation. She really was a 10 and was a sweet kid besides. PM me for details
There are plenty of dating sites that match sugar daddies with sugar babies. But, you are going to have to show a lot more class than your post, so far, indicates. SugarBabies don't just want to get together for a "rub and tug, BJ or what ever else you can get from them". They want a classy guy who can wine and dine them, arrange for spa days, take them shopping from time to time, bring them on nice trips, and treat them with respect.
In short they want you to be classier than the run-of-the-mill john, who is simply looking for something regular on the side. If that is what you want, stick with escorts. I have had some long term SugarBabies, and I can assure you the expense is far greater than just paying a provider. And, don't just expect that you throw around a "little spending money", that some "hot little college aged cutie", is going to fall on her back for you. The real sugarbabes have too much class for that.
And, finally, I doubt many real providers will be worried about your having a mistress, and losing your business. Since you have only a few reviews in the past few years, I don't think most of them have had it in the first place.
If you want to find the dating sites, just do a search for sugar babies or sugar daddies.
There was a provider in MN a few years back, very highly rated and now retired, who was very willing to be a mistress. She was happy to be squired just as you suggest, for a low six figures annually, and she would have been well worth it.
She was probably a very different type of woman than the co-ed thruster2 describes, and I'm guessing the big difference was their short term vs. long term objectives.
I agree that you probably need to do a little more research and you are probably better off with escorts given what your current expectations are. If you want to learn the ropes start with sugardaddyforme.com and sugardaddie.com
Follow the link below for a little insight. It's always nice to measure the pros and cons when making this big of a dicision.
A few things that AREN'T listed in this link are:
1. Offering a girl "A little extra cash" for 2 times a month of "rub and tug or whatever else she'll give me" and ALSO wanted her to be exclusive to just you is a little like asking for the Holy Grail and sort of a double standard. You can have your wife but she can't go out with other people? Re-read what you wrote but put the girl in the place of you and see what you feel about it then.
2. College-aged cutie to be exclusive with a married guy for mere change? Not likely. Try offering to pay for her rent on campus (around 500 a month) and her car insurance and you'll probably get a few inquiries. The more you're willing to spend, the bigger your selection of choosing this mythical-coed will be.
3. If you choose to use Providers (whom you can see the same one or different ones dependant on your mood) instead of looking for a mistress, keep in mind that Providers (good ones anyway) will NEVER contact you without you asking first. With this said, you're chances of getting caught by your wife (who could easily be checking your phone records, emails, texts or credit card statements without your knowledge if she's getting weird vibes from you) are much less.
And for a final thought I found an interesting statistic while searching this topic (I'd put the link to this as well but there is only one link space below), married and commited women polled in 2007 said that 74% of them would feel more betrayed by their husband for having a mistress (someone they have an intimate bond with) vs. have a one night stand that ended there. While the pole was not done with "Paid college coeds to be monogomous to only you vs. one-night-stand-style hookers", hopefully you're picking up what I'm putting down.
All the best to you and good luck with your search!
I noticed that around the first of the month I'd see an ad or two from young girls that didn't look very professionally done. I started wondering if these ads were from regular girls that were short rent money and were planning on taking just a call or two. I answered a few and found out I was correct and the girls were often very sweet, down to earth and gave a great session. Three years ago I meet a very attractive girl, 20 years old, hot as hell, smart and a lot of fun. We hit it off, even though I'm the same age as her parents, and have been getting together once a week ever since. She only took two other calls before mine and none since. We worked a deal for $ each time, she stays two hours and I get better service than I do from the $$$ TER 10's I see. With a little luck, patience and a strategy you might find just what your looking for on CL or BP.
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