Why do some providers only offer cbj?
Is it disease? Fear of CIM? What?
I get that there may be some case-by-case reasons, but to be in profession and have a blanket policy seems odd.  

Ok. If it dumb, then tell me me why? There are numerous providers that offer bbbj, so I imagine your insult is cast at them as well?

Because...

I am all for them making a choice because it is their body. I am not trying to persuade anyone to change their policy. I just want their reasons. Read this with curiosity, not criticism.
The question remains, why do some offer cbj and others bbbj?

it is interesting because there are so many different responses.  my message to the first author is this board in dominated by a few people who have assumed ownership.  It is like walking into a small town bar in MN if you have not been granted membership they will attack any thing you ask.  It makes them feel important.
  this question is fascinating mostly for this reason; the risk is obvious, we all understand that and the ladies absolute rite to offer what ever she wants to and decline what ever she wants is understood and accepted.  the under 90, IQ's will attack me anyway but for the rest of us...   Almost 100% of the top providers, the real pros who earn $300 to $1000 per hour do BB.  It is the low end $80 girls who refuse (decline).  So why to the top most experienced pro's do the higher risk option and the street walkers do not.  It may be that the low price customers are less clean and the high end guys are better??  If the attack monkey's will stand down I would love to hear from the ladies on both sides.

Thanks. That's all I am asking.

Most ladies who do CBJ are nervous of what you can catch from that type of contact and also don't enjoy the personal anxiety it causes to be sucking that many bare dicks without knowing where they've been. The pros of CBJ outweigh the cons. I have had many gents say there is only a slight difference. I see no one is really taking interest in this topic so I felt the need to reply.... but search through old threads again with a huge day span and different keywords and you'll find your answers..

Thanks. I did a search and did not find similar topic. I know it is a personal decision.

some are more health conscious while others are less...I really don't understand why a CBJ is a deal breakers for some

that's a dumb answer as being cleaned does not mean being disease free

I don't understand your attackers.  You just seem genuinely curious for the reasons.  I will speak only for myself.  Simply put, I don't trust anyone to not CIM, and it is a disease thing.  That being said, I have done my very best to eliminate the reason most men are against CBJ.  If you ever want to know what I mean by that, you'll have to just take your chances with a lowly CBJ girl  Of course, you don't have to, because there are so many amazing women in the area that offer BBBJ, and there's no need to compromise what you desire!  

After seeing much of what men say on this board, I think very little is now sub-par.

Time-Period:  In what time-period will the legalization of sex work take place in the United States?

I appreciate your reply because I had thought about seeing you until I read that you are cbj only. I respect your reasons.  

Aside from the immediate benefits of avoiding the direct legal consequences, people would also avoid the indirect consequences, which can easily be more severe, of having your hobby activities exposed to your family, friends, employer, etc.

He asked for provider's perspectives on why some only offer CBJ.  Nothing wrong with trying to understand why some escorts do and others do not.  This is a discussion board after all.

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From a simple question about CBJ or BBBJ to legalizing prostitution?  
Some of these threads really take a left turn sometimes. Although they are sort of related.

Why can't the reason be as simple as because it is our bodies?  There are many reasons why.

the more likely the provider will have more on her menu.   When a provider has a more wide open menu, the more risks she is taking.    Anal, rimming and BBBJ have more health risks than a CBJ and no anal play.  In my open, these ladies who take those risks should receive more per hour than those, like myself, who do not.

The last statement regarding marriage counseling is quite ridiculous. The role you describe is fulfilled by a Certified Sex Therapist. I doubt there are any prostitutes presently engaged in this industry that have any of the educational credentials to to even pretend that they could fulfill the role of a genuine sex therapist or sex surrogate. Academic credentials are very important in the real (i.e., not hobby) world.

Thank you for answering the question.
This is actually the type of 'against' list I was looking for.
I wish you the best (really!) and there is nothing wrong with your position because it is your body and business.

This is a profession that involves physical intimacy.  Because of that, both providers and hobbyists draw certain boundaries.
The principal sex organ is the brain.  A provider's ability to create a gratifying experience mostly depends on her ability to stimulate you in the head.
I have had BBBJs that were as flat and dry as Death Valley.  
I have had CBJs that were sensuous and push-over-the-edge hot, hot as a firecracker --- check out Natalie Chambers or Trinity Lake if you want an idea.
Is a really hot CBJ as good as a really hot BBBJ?  Well, probably not, but I don't think it's fair to slice the salami that thin.....I've had extremely hot BBBJs followed by really lackluster FS, so the whole experience wasn't that great.  To look at the BJ in isolation is misleading.
Bottom line:  live in your head, not in your dick.

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I decided not to engage you on many of your comments because you are a difficult character. You rarely concede anything. Thus, I was surprised when you basically agreed that the legalization of prostitution is not coming soon within the United States.

As with all of us, to each his own. We are all fortunate to have such a great variety of excellent providers to choose from to satisfy the experience we seek.
In reality, I do not enjoy or seek FS from the hobby.
I only want 1 service done very well.
I seek providers that will do this well and that's it.
In fact, I am not into all the extras in that area, either.  

There you go, again. If you lose the argument, change the ground rules. It's not about the debate, it's about personalities.  

jchan....
if that is your nly reason for not seeing Trinity...go see her.  I was on the fence but took the plunge.  Words cant explain how she does this

There are plenty of gents for every gal.  You simply want a BBBJ.  If that is the experience you're going for, then go for it!  If you are looking for way more than JUST that, you might want to consider opening yourself up to other possibilities.  

"Why" need not be asked when "personal preference" is sufficient and the possible reasons for that are so common and obvious.  I don't understand why people are so curious in these situations. It just doesn't matter.

Come see Trinity and I for a duo's experience.  
She makes me revv too!!! MMMMMMmmmmmmmm ... Don't believe me? Just ask her. LOL!