Be careful outthere. So I've been in the hobby for over a decade. I'm not a weekly or monthly type a guy but everyone in a while I'll treat my self. I have always taken all posible measurements of precaution. But this time, even though I was beeing careful something slipped and got roobed. Long story short.
I'm seeing this young girl, not dating seriously but like f buddies. She is really sexual and likes the adventures so we decided to call up a provider and have fun. I have to admit I started thinking with my d. So I went on the mission to find a provider who caters to couples. It wasn't a good easy to find. So I had a girl confirmed from gator event though I avoid that site I still went for it. She didn't have any reviews or online presence. So I arrange a video call verification and talked couple of times over the phone. She seemed nice and chill said she works at Rick's. I got a later response of couple of verified providers but since I had this random girl scheduled I didn't want to be a bad guy and cancel on her I went with her. And I jeo on doubting my self. I have a rule that I don't see providers like that. Not worth the hassle and the risk honestly. Also not to sound like I'm discriminating but AA providers have most of the time gave me a bad experience. Not all, I'm not generalizing but most in this industry, local ones are just so much more trouble than enjoyment. Maybe they don't like WM but then again if you don't like this as a job then dont do it. We don't live In a 3 world country where you have to do this for survival. So me and my girl are messing around in the hotel room and finally she comes late. She sits down we discuss everything and requires her gift. She seems like little high on something but nothing crazy and talks super ghetto. Turn off but we are all there so I'm ignoring the signs and give her the gift. We are all warming up and all of a sudden she has to smoke. I try to be nice and say that we can smoke on our brake or after. Then she starts texting with her sister supposedly who is her driver to get her purse and what not so she doesn't have to wait for her. Now she wants to leave and we just got started. The whole moment now is awkward, I see what's her idea and I know where this would lead. Remember I'm here with my girl and don't want to start an argument. I also have a public job where I don't really want things to escalate as well. So what would have you done in that moment. I carry so I don't care for a pimp or whatever hoodrat is with her if it gets to that point but I also don't want to escalate the situation. I continued with my girl, she said she is coming right back but of course never did. Took the money and ran. Never in my 10 years have something like this happen to me. The length and the risk of how far someone is willing to go is something I can not wrap my head around. Like she is in a hotel roomwith her tit's out dashing with the money. Like as a provider doesn't she sees a risk in it. Anyway just venting and I thought this situation I had night help somebody.In my opinion you did the right thing ... let her go. Remember the poor guy that got murdered a while back when he had a dispute with a hooker and her pimp. Let the money go. Caulk it up to the cost of doing biz.
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In this biz, there is the occasional loss. Them running out the door with the money is always a possibility on an outcall. Them's the breaks.
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That's was my logic. I was just surprised the extent of a scam/robbery she went through putting her self in harms way over few bills.
Lester was right. Letting her go was the safest option, avoiding a potential escalation. In high-emotion situations, snap decisions can lead to regret. That's why it's wise to let sleeping dogs lie. But now, instead of just leaving a board post to vent, please consider writing a rip-off review to warn other clients.
Regarding the comments about AA providers, it's crucial to understand that while your observation is based on personal encounters it still led to a generalized, discriminatory statement because of the unwise choices *you* have consistently made it appears. As you stated, the girl was from "gator", despite you typically "avoid[ing] that site", and she "didn't have reviews or online presence". So, even though you put yourself in a situation where her reputation was unknown, and it appears do so consistently, you make a sweeping, negative statement. I would appreciate your correction if my logic is flawed or if I'm missing something.
Minneapolis has its share of several legitimate and professional local AA providers, as well as bi &/or multi-racial providers of AA descent. TERs search feature could have connected you with them. In my extensive experience in this industry, I can confidently say that every reputable black provider I've met, locally and globally, goes above and beyond to prove their professionalism. We are well aware of the common stereotypes and biases held by clients, especially white clients. One misstep can unfairly stigmatize us. Additionally, I have participated in duos and trios with providers from various races and ethnicities, and I must note that the most unprofessional encounters were not with women of color. More often than not, it has been the white women that clients tend to idolize who displayed less professionalism and/or could get away with more (re: no makeup, no lingerie, smoking during an appointment, etc.). But just because that's happened doesn't mean I write off duos with white women - lol. I just don't work with that particular person in the future.
I apologize if that came the wrong way. I'm white but not American. In other parts of the world being white doesn't represent any form of identity to us. In other parts of the world this hobby is with way less stigma and problems. I have dated women from all around the world, every race, ethnicity, cultural background. My girlfriend who was with us is a women of colour.
And as I said I've had great communication and great experiences with AA providers or regular dating life. And you are right. I was kinda asking for it going blind into this. I just wanted to portrey an image of the provider that you will probably have more complications than pleasure.
I'm awere with the American problem with race issues. But when you travel half of the world that whole issue is hold by people who live in a different century. I am a were that some white clients might hold thoese kind of views. But my point was in describing the type of provider that I've usually have had most trouble.
Again I apologize if my description was taken in the wrong way. I will edit whatever was maybe inappropriate to say.
I wouldn't rush to censor your own experience just to please someone else. We categorize a lot, young chicks, older chicks, college chicks, working chicks, unemployed chicks. If there is a different experience with Asian chicks or AA chicks, we should be able to speak about it. Everyone understands, or should understand, at this point that generalities don't implicate every individual.
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Having said that, though I've never been with an AA pro (tried a few times but never got replies) I have been with several AA sugar babes. There was nothing in particular that differentiated them in a negative way from white, Asian, or Latinas.
Some times you just have to cut your losses because things could blow up in your face (and in this case that of the girl you were with) and the consequences of that could easily be worse. Please write a review on the provider who ripped you off so that hopefully others can avoid her.
She deleted the post. No doubt she'll make a new one with a different number and go back to it. I blame my self for rushing into this, even though I took as many precautions possibly there's still the chance of this happening.
Well, if you see her ad elsewhere, you can write a review then.
I had a sugar baby around 21, worked at a bank, just awesome looking girl, everything was great then in the middle of a 69 she makes up some bull about her phone rang and she got up and got dressed and pretended that her sister called and then left. I could not believe it. Luckily it was not much money, but I was not happy. She was new and just did not know what was happening, so I let it go.
She got gross out. Too young imo
I think it would be a good idea to let the community know who she was , could I possibly get a PM on her link ?