I have a client who has given me this girl as a reference, but I can't find her on TER, and he says she doesn't want reviews.  Have any of you regulars seen here?

Also, why would anyone not want to be reviewed?

Lots of ladies prefer to stay under the radar, i.e., no reviews and, for some, no ads.  Less chance of LE taking an interest in them.  

It's a balancing act, isn't it?  Reviews help build your business...but, for some ladies, they prefer to do it in a lower-profile way.

I'm glad I'm a hobbyist, not a provider, and don't have to deal with such existential questions!

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It is also the client's responsibility to meet your screening requirements. You don't have to jump through hoops for them and are under no obligation to see them.

There are legitimate reasons why a lady might not like to be reviewed but if she advertises and promotes herself in a public forum then all bets are off and  still reserve the right to review them.

As far as your question goes, the picture looks familiar and she might have been discussed on TER before. However that does not solve your problem. Any client can say they saw anyone on TER, BP, Eros or anywhere else. You still have to do due diligence and verify a potential client actually saw a lady he claims to have seen.

If your potential client is using this person as a reference, call her to verify him. Keep in mind, however, that the services that she offers may differ from your services.

Trinity:  If the provider doesn't want reviews, I would never use them as a reference.  That is their choice and if I'm unwilling to honor that choice, I shouldn't use that provider.

If I can't verify a lady is legit I won't accept her as a reference. If he can't provide a reference that has a proven track record of being trustworthy I would more than likely decline the appt. request.

I mentioned this to you in a previous post. I do admire the fact that you require references, but you may start banging your head  against a brick wall when you try to acquire refs from some of these local massage gals. They may not even know what you mean or be offended because they think you're stealing one of their clients.

Why they don't want reviews?
They may already be established and don't need them
They are YMMV and have a variable menu pending upon who is on their table
They have a static incall and don't want LE giving them shit
They don't want some newb giving too much information about their incall in a review..you've had this happen to you already.
They may have concerns about their massage/business  licesnse and don't want to get into trouble in their city.
They prefer to be UTR

Best of luck to you pretty lady and I need to come see you soon! Yes, I have references...lol.

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that she was using her as a reference?  I did that once without thinking.  Fortunately, the lady to whom I referred her was cool with it.  Nowadays, I always warn a reference in advance.