So I met this girl. She told me she wanted me to come to her place to hang out and when I got there she explained to me that she wanted me to be her Daddy.  

 Now this girl wasn't a provider who posted ads on BP or TER. She said she posts mainly on dating websites under the intent of finding her Sugar Daddy. Needless to say I was very interested in this concept and wanted her to tell me all about it. The way she described it to me was that I would give her an allowance once a month but would be granted so many "visits" - like once a week.  

I asked her how that was different from being an escort paid in advance? She told me if I was her Daddy I would have exclusivity and we could talk on the phone and text and stuff like a relationship. Still not really being able to grasp the difference I asked her how would I know I would be her only Daddy if I was only able to see her once a week? She tells me that I would just have to trust her and I almost choked on my water I was drinking fighting back the laughter. The last question I asked her was how do I know I want to get into this kind of commitment with you.

 She stood up in front of me, unzipped her dress and let it fall to the floor. She had a body that was undeniably goddess like and stood there in front of me with a smile. I told her that her argument was solid but I would have to think about it.
She slips her dress back on, sits on my lap and gives me a kiss and says to not take too long to think about it and let her know.

 Has anyone ever encountered anything like this before? Is this a thing? The whole thing just seemed off. She was drop dead gorgeous, but the whole thing just seemed weird.

What website you find her in. Sounds good to me.

I bumped into her at the Vu' one night and she gave me her number. She was there with some friends. I actually thought I was good to go on the way to her place, but then that happened.

It can be a good thing as long as you are both on the same page with your expectaions. It can also be easier for one party to become emotionally involved making it harder to hide the arrangement from a SO.  
You won't know and it shouldn't matter if you are her only Daddy any more than you would know you are her one and only if you were dating, but your not dating you're paying her for access to her goddess like body.  
She could take your first payment and you'll never see her again or it could be the best thing since sliced bread. To proceed or not depends on if you like regularity, or variety and how much time you get for your money.
Above all remember that sugar is sweet, but it's still P4P.......

Do just a bit of basic research on your own. google "sugar dating" or start with the article below...

or try googling: "sugar dating 101" and go from there.

It's an intriguing concept.  From what I have heard from those who have tried it, it takes a lot more time and effort to make this work than simply seeing an escort.  And because it is often more like a regular relationship, the possibility of things ending badly is higher.  But when both parties are on the same page, it sounds like it can be a lot of fun.

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...instead of prepaying at the beginning of the month. Since she's into trusting and all that she shouldn't have a problem with that. Young, DDG women who are in to P4P are usually highly sexual so the liklihood that she's not also being tapped by several others is highly, highly unlikely. But, as long as your getting yours, who gives a shit, right?!

You only live once so why not give it a shot?

Although this whole Sugar world is fantastically interesting, I just don't think it's right for me. I feel like shit could get really complicated, especially if really strong emotions started to develope. I also love the choices with the current hobby.  
Thanks for the info!

I like this thought, maybe in the future I would consider it, but I love the hobby too much as of now.

Sounds like Big head won over little head!! e.

You'd still have all those other options and choices available to you in the hobby even if you tried her out. Why not take a test drive for a month? It's not like you're signing a long term contract. As previously suggested, don't pay in advance lol.

There's no pattern to these things.  She's making her own deal up, and it's up to you to figure out the contract, motivation, and most of all, if what you will get is what you will get...

Not all that long ago I had a great time with a beautiful graduate student for two months --  $1000 up front, $1000 at the end.  Saw her 3 or 4 times a week.  I think that was a deal, don't you?  One evening she offered to give me a ride somewhere.  We walked down from her smart condo to the garage, and there was her hot imported convertible.  It was a nice enough car that describing it might out her.  I had thought she just didn't have much of head for money.  In fact she didn't really need the money, but she loved the thrill of sugar baby sex.

Your lady doesn't sound like that.

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I have some experience in SB/SD relationships and in general it ends up costing you more than if you just saw an escort.  There are a lot of SB's that are quite attractive, but do not really deliver as promised.  They are quite skilled at getting money above and beyond the monthly allowance for things like "my cat is sick", or "my rent is due", etc.  That's the problem with the additional contact via text or email, they're always setting up the next money grab scenario.  This is not to say there are not good SB's, I have had one and it was a very positive experience.  To sum up my advice, buyer beware.

I ran her name through a couple websites and found that she and another gal were arrested in the Duluth area. Apperantly these two girls put up an ad for escort service and robbed the poor guy who showed up at gun point. (She said it was just a toy bb gun) When I asked her about it. Well, I think my mind was pretty much made up at that point lol

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I would if she didn't have a scary ass wrap sheet.

If you are a hobbyist that spends nights, weekends and travels with your ATF escort, then there really isn't a lot of difference between that and a sugar-baby.  Most sugar-babies would have you believe that you are their only sugar-daddy, but most of the time that is not the case.  Most have more than one sugar-daddy and many are escorts that use the sugar-daddy approach to line up more clients.  If you google numbers for potential sugar-babies you'll often times find their BP ads.

Also, most potential sugar-babies want a set monthly allowance, but most of the time it's still pretty much a pay for outing type of deal.  

Finally, in rare occasions, women use a Seeking Arrangement type of service as a half dating and half arrangement type of approach where they are sincerely looking for a good relationship with and older, more mature and wealthy type of man to treat them well and show them a good time.  In these instances it may only be the cost of entertainment and travel that the SB expects in exchange for their company.

We have been together about 9 month's now, we met on here! In the beginning of my career I posted about being interested in the sugar life, and resources if I can remember correctly. Anywho, I met my Daddy (though I call him my love) here via PM. We hit it off instantly! And arranged to meet for dinner. I am a little shy at first which he thought was so cute as I remember him saying. After a hour I opened up, we danced had a blast and went back to a hotel to make hot cocoa and watched a movie eating popcorn! The little things are such a turn on! And then more fun began! Before I knew we had spent 6 hour's together! 4pm-10p I had a sitter until 12 (it was a Saturday) so I had to get going.  

We have been together since that day, I see my love 2 or 3 days a week off the clock when me and my little ones don't have any activities planned. His menu is different from the guy's I see (escort wise) but absolutely NO bbfs. Everything else? Oooh you bet ya! He has no issue with me being a companion once or twice a week. As I only see one gentlemen and he's totally ok with that. If he wasn't ok with it he knows things would have to change.  

Our arrangement? I see him 2 or 3 times a week off the clock, we txt and call each other and we love to Skype when he's on business trips. My allowance is 3,800 a month(though he ends up giving me 5-8 thousand). I have never had to ask for more, he already spoils the crap out of me lol! And even if I wasn't spoiled I'm not going to ask for more money. He gives me half in the beginning of the month other half at the end. Though he trust me so much he normally pays all at the beginning of the month.  

I love being a sugar baby! And a escort and a mom and work a full time job. I just love people and staying busy!  

He knows and accepts that I am seeking one other daddy and quitting escort for good. He's very none judgmental and I often call him when I've had a rough day. As he does with me as well. We are just like bf and gf. He doesn't have a wife and I am single. If he did I clearly wouldn't call him at 2pm just because I need to vent a little. Or txt him how I just saw a 10ft tall shoe on a car lol. Other then us venting to one another our relationship is filled with love and SO much fun. He is 48 I am 25, but that has never been a issue. Anyways who gives a shit what people are thinking? Ha we don't!

Holy CHRIST! I'm pretty sure thats what I would be doing for money if I was born different gender. Maybe I would give stripping a shot if I had the body, but that business is very catty and competitive I've been told.

 Oh yeah, I'm a guy... Heres all my money

Are you sure I can have all your moola? Such a gentlemen you are

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Because at the time this all went down we were emailing each other trying to set up a time for me to meet her at her place as talking or texting on the phone is less discreet to a detective (wife/girlfriend).  

And she uses her real name attached to her email which I ran through a couple searches which any dummy can do to look at anyone's wrap sheet, it's free information available to the public. Thats when I had seen that she had indeed been a very naughty girl.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/rap%20sheet

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Must be thinking about Christmas lol

I'm not up to speed on cop lingo, like thats a bad thing lol