Couple of weeks ago I made arrangements to see a local escort this past Saturday. Everything was done by email and we set the time and date and she said she would get me the location the night before. No problem. She did so and by late Friday evening, everything was confirmed for date, time, location, and her contact number.
I dropped her a quick email to let her know I was still coming Saturday AM. I had not heard anything by the time I left but I was not surprised by this as I have dealt with her before and this was how it had played out previously. I arrived on time and called the number to get her room number. No answer so I left a message that I was there and was waiting for her. I heard nothing back. I tried several more times over the course of the next hour plus while I took care of a few errands in the general area. No answer, no return calls. I didn't leave any additional messages beyond the first one.
That evening, I sent her an email politely asking what had happened and hoping that she was OK.
It's now three days later and I have heard nothing. Zip, zero, zilch, nada.
I really find doing this sort of thing distasteful but as others have pointed out saying nothing when this happens only lets the girls who do this get away with it more often. I think three days was plenty of time to wait for an explanation so I believe its necessary to name names.
The escort's name is Miranda.
Sorry to hear that Vorlon. I have seen her in the past and she has always seemed to have a hard time keeping appointments. In fact, it happened just a bit ago. I received conformation around noon. Waited at location, called and left message. 20 minutes and I finally gave up and came home.
Well, at least you saved the donation to play another day.
I was at an incall (her apartment) last July.
The escort did both massage and full-service.
I was there for full-service which is more lucrative than a massage.
The escort got a late start with my session and had a follow-up meeting with a massage customer.
While I was still there, the other gentlemen was calling from the parking lot.
She went to the window to observe but did not answer the gentleman.
Who knows what events lead to some of these miscues?
The lady I was with did not blink about leaving the other gentleman without the courtesy of reply.
Hopefully she is safe and sound.
Business is business on both ends and perhaps it is time for you to leave her in your hobby past.
Good Luck!
for an hours work. Most people don't even make this in a day. That is alot of money in today's economy.
Maybe she had a legitimate excuse but 3 days is enough for a quick follow up e-mail or phone call. Distasteful is the right word especially when you have seen her before. NCNS for either party is both unacceptable and deplorable in my book.
Thanks for pointing this provider out and hopefully she (and others) will learn.
I hate that this happens to anyone, and I have to agree that posting in the way you did is the right thing to do.
It doesn't matter how good reviews are, or how
highly respected the provider is. There is no excuse for a NCNS.
I also believe that Hobbyists have no excuse for NCNS.
Just my .0002 cents
These post never make any sense to me. Ok so she stood you up. But you lost nothing! No money, no embezzlement, no deception. You lost only time. Excuse me, but is that worth a dramatic flourish in announcing her name?? Good grief!
I know, your ego is severely dented. You planned this wonderful activity of the hobby for days and was looking forward to the experience. But these whiny 'stay away!' posts just kind of make the dude look awful petty.
dismiss the chick man. plenty more fish in this sea. It's real live women. All with individual issues.
Give her a break. It's illogical to think that someone would post an ad just to deliberately stand up a caller.
but hey, what do I know?
I have, er.... no reviews.
Maybe your time is worth very little to you, but I agree with Vorlon. The providers should be able to take the bad with the good. This (reporting the NCNS providers) is one of the reasons that I continue to pay for this service.
His post makes perfect sense, and is valuable information, to dozens of hobbyers who read it, and who are now not about waste time, energy AND money on a significant NCNS risk. In fact, despite your words, I'll bet you're even one of them. Ain't cha?
You know what kind of posts make no sense? One's like yours make no sense. And that's true whether you have reviews or not.
I didn't post this because of a bruised ego or hurt feelings. I don't like making such posts; it's not pleasant. The purpose of the post was to let other guys know what happened in the only way possible as you can't write a review about a NCNS.
Oh, and I did give her a break. I waited three days to see if I would get an explanation and I did not. If I do hear something satisfactory from her, I will post that as well.
I know what your saying, your not trying to ruin buisisness for her but to let others know this may happen. So if you from out of town make a special trip in to the metro, you may want to possibly have a backup plan? I also think three days is ample time in getting back to you. I think you did the right thing, to bad more of us don't step up and do the same.
ok, for the severely mentally dented, and a few have outed themselves in this post, this is why these posts make no sense. Here is Vorlon, in his own words:
V=as others have pointed out saying nothing when this happens only lets the girls who do this get away with it more often.
WHY WOULD YOU CASTIGATE SOMEONE FOR AN ACTION THAT HAS NO BENEFIT TO THEM AT ALL???
In what possible method of theoretic analysis would you argue that a girl would deliberately want to 'get away with this''??
It makes no sense. The girl is not stupid. She was able to create and book an ad, and you probably was not the only guy who gave her a call. She took your call and booked some time. At the second to the last minute, she changed her mind. That she had the audacity to change her mind ticked you off, but what sent the testosterone into overdrive is that she apparently did not consider you important enough, to profusely apologize for having wasted your valuable and precious time.
I just see things different. Instead of coming on and perpetuating the negativity, why not maybe see your second choice and then come extoll her virtues?
Even your request lacks logic. You say stay away from this girl because if you book time with her, she will..........stay away!!?
Makes no sense.
Tons more women post on this board every day and these 'stay away' posts to me just sometimes get a bit blown out of proportion.
The girls say it all the time. Imagine if they came running on here to blow up some guy for all the stupid shit that happens to them all the time.
peace and love partner, we do what we got to do.
Next time I suggest walking back to your car and rumination on the battle now between PF Chang's, Little Six, or finally getting that personal inscription 16GB Silver Nano.
However, the reality is people do things that make no sense all the time and that includes escorts who run ads, book appointments, confirm them, and then do not keep them without notifying their client of this.
In my world, when I make appointments, I keep them or I notify the other party that I can't make it. This is not only good business practice, it is simple manners. It is not unreasonable at all to expect that same level of service from others. A simple phone call or email was all it would have taken. Last spring, I also had an appointment with her that didn't happen; she got sick and let me know. No problem. And if I was as irate as you seem to think I was then I would have made my post on Saturday instead of waiting 3 days which I did for the purpose of giving her the chance to contact me.
To quote you "Even your request lacks logic. You say stay away from this girl because if you book time with her, she will..........stay away!!?
Makes no sense."
It is not my "request" that lacks logic, it is her actions. And I am not requesting anything, I am letting other guys know what happened so they can include that information in their decision making. And that is because if someone books time with her she MIGHT stay away, illogical as it sounds.
Oh, and BTW, I did manage to see anther girl that evening. I had a nice time and wrote a review about it. I like it much better when I can write complimentary things about the ladies but that doesn't mean I'm going to ignore it when things go badly.
and I admire your passion.
I apologize for the slight hijack of your post.
We may not agree 100%, but I admire your passion.
You did everything right, you gave her a chance to respond and she didn't. I for one, appreciate the information. Some of us drive hours to see a certain provider and don't want to make a long drive for nothing.
I had the opportunity to see the lovely lady this month, but couldn't get away. It is very difficult to set up an alternative date the day of driving 200 miles, even though I have a list of numbers that I have been prescreened for.
sorry about the NCNS. I was not aware she was still around. This certainly does not sound like her. Hopefully she will explain to you and make it up.
That's a bummer. For what it's worth, I've seen here a couple of times in the last 18 months or so, no problem either time and no rep for ncns when I was researching for the first visit. Not going all white knight or anything and am glad when people post ncns info, but might as well put someone's record in context once we're talking about it.
I would really like a taste of this cutie, so I hope she pulls it together. Thanks to this post, I think I'll wait until she's got another review before I try and book with her. Which is a shame, because she looks fantastic.
Thanks Vorlon.
Do you think she may be the gal that got busted on the thread posted a week ago?
I think it was the general consensus that that particular post was one smelly pile of shit.
I last heard from her on Jan 12. Seemed Ok then. Sorry to here this Vorlan, to me she was always the most respectful and courteous gal. Her last notes to me said she was in Minnesota through January and then leaving the state for good.
I had the same experience last night.
I am from out of town and made arrangements via email and called when I got to town. She told me where she was staying and said to call when I arrived.
Called from the lobby and she said she had to come down to get me because she needed to use the room key card to operate the elevator. I waited 20 minutes and called, got her voice mail. Waited another 10 minutes, got the voicemail. After 45 minutes I left.
I was angry and sad and felt completely betrayed. I have seen her three times in the past and I thought she was not like that.
Heya, Vorlon, sorry to hear about the NCNS. Getting stood up always sucks, especially when it's without any sort of explanation.
Something that caught my eye with this ad was the mention of a two-girl date with Bridget. Didn't she retire sometime in the past year?
It doesn't explain the email conversations you were having, but for some reason, this feels like a little bit of a red flag -- or that could just be me, too.