Minnesota

Blacklisted
mastersinger 5 Reviews 1290 reads
posted
1 / 19

I just found out I am on a blacklist. I had an appointment scheduled this Monday with a highly regared provider.  and was just notified that it wont happen because I am on a client blacklist.  
I really am confused and pissed off about this.
I wasnt told why I am on the list. The only mention is insulting practices.  

I am so confused and now wonder how I can get my name cleared.
Most girls have commented on how I respectively treat them compared to other clients.

I am not a frequent hobbiest, but date about 6-8.times per year.
I was really looking forward to my appointment and now am crushed.  

Any ideas for help. I am so confused and pissed

JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 439 reads
posted
3 / 19

with 44 reviews and almost 30% of your scores for performance are 5 or less. Those 13 reviews averaged a 3.5. I read some but not all of his reviews, seems to have lots of issues, some his some possibly not.

A few possible things in my mind; you need to see higher rated providers, you need to get a better attitude and forget about being the review police, you need to get a grip on reality in so much as you are not dealing with restaurants or car dealerships, these women will get back at you, as breadmaker points out.

It's understandable that you are using an alias, as you are now in trouble. PM me your username and I will give you a more detailed answer if you want.

MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 762 reads
posted
4 / 19

You aren't even supposed to have access to that area of any blacklist.
second you had to have done something to get on there, I tend to trust other ladies so I doubt you ended up there for no reason .  
Also I believe you can't really get off them entirely .  

Posted By: mastersinger
I just found out I am on a blacklist. I had an appointment scheduled this Monday with a highly regared provider.  and was just notified that it wont happen because I am on a client blacklist.  
 I really am confused and pissed off about this.  
 I wasnt told why I am on the list. The only mention is insulting practices.  
   
 I am so confused and now wonder how I can get my name cleared.  
 Most girls have commented on how I respectively treat them compared to other clients.  
   
 I am not a frequent hobbiest, but date about 6-8.times per year.  
 I was really looking forward to my appointment and now am crushed.  
   
 Any ideas for help. I am so confused and pissed.  
 

mastersinger 5 Reviews 728 reads
posted
5 / 19

Mastersinger is not an alias.  I stopped trying to write reviews because they weren't detailed enough.  

I seriously cannot think of what I have done or didn't do to warrant this. The visiting girl only told me my name is on a blacklist for out of normal activities that she consides insulting but won't tell me what they are.
I did not provide any TER information to her so it's my name on this list..  
I just don't want to be prevented from seeing traveling or locals who I haven't been with before

Drumsticks 90 Reviews 611 reads
posted
7 / 19

...just don't worry about it and move on. There are thousands of horny ladies just waiting for you to ask them for a date.

jchan113 4 Reviews 642 reads
posted
8 / 19

Maybe if you post your real name here, some providers can let you know what they think. Just trying to help...:-)

BenSubdude 671 reads
posted
9 / 19

Posted By: jchan113
Maybe if you post your real name here, some providers can let you know what they think. Just trying to help...:-)
I believe that would violate the TOS.

  "Posting personal information of members or providers, including content copied from their emails and Private Messages, is grounds for BANISHMENT."

I think he is better off without your help.

DJ!! 597 reads
posted
10 / 19
MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 664 reads
posted
11 / 19

If I see a guys name on there for something minuscule ( now, I'm not speaking for others but I do give them a chance .
Usually the opposite is true and it turns out fine.  

Posted By: Drumsticks
...just don't worry about it and move on. There are thousands of horny ladies just waiting for you to ask them for a date.

lockstock 229 Reviews 511 reads
posted
12 / 19

I think JChan was attempting humor, based on the idea that OP gave his real name to a traveler or agency (incredibly trustworthy, Florida-based? ultra-discreet agency run by people who speak no more than 20 words of English all with an eastern European accent, the sort of people you'd trust with your life)

bdrmEyes 537 reads
posted
13 / 19

A provider blacklisted me once, this was after she'd given me a P411 OK that she removed. I posted a review about two months after seeing her (and getting the OK). I gave her a 7 & 8, but said we didn't click, said she didn't seem into kissing, and said I thought she was a little shorter than listed on her TER profile. As soon as she read that, she went postal on me via email because about my comment on her being shorter than listed. She ended the email saying I had one thing right, that she didn't want to kiss me because I was too fat and ugly. She then blacklisted me, saying I lied in reviews if I didn't get what I wanted. Since she admitted she didn't want to kiss me (although I'm sure she didn't actually remember me by the time she blacklisted me), the only other thing I could have lied about was thinking she was short.

My point...I also have 15+ OKs on P411 and a couple of whitelists. You can't do anything about the blacklist. Even if you don't hobby much, collect a couple of references, join P411 or Datecheck.

xcurvycatrinax See my TER Reviews 569 reads
posted
14 / 19

A few things

A) You can access if you are blacklisted or not by entering the hobby info you use for screening into google..  

B) there is nothing you can do to get this info removed from the blacklist, once you are on there is a lifetime membership

C) if you have seen 6-8 ladies per year then you should have atleast 3 good provider references that would counter the blacklist that you received  

D) based on all her research , it is still up to the provider if she wants to see you or not

 
At this point your best bet would be to see the women  you have already seen and build up a "good regular" reputation.. so that you can have good references that will counteract the blacklist you received. Stick to the local ladies for now.  

Gentlemen keep in mind , just as our behavior can reflect in reviews, your behavior can be reflected in the blacklist..  This is how providers have the ability to "review" clients, and we use it.  
Just as reviews can be used to hinder a ladies career so can the blacklist hinder your hobbytime.  

This is why its important to treat eachother with respect .

MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 563 reads
posted
15 / 19

Exactly! I've seen people listed just for asking too many questions or too many emails.  
IMO that is NOT what the blacklists are for .

MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 548 reads
posted
16 / 19

I think as long as you have a few solid references you'll be fine. Not advising that ladies ignore blacklists but to take into consideration that sometimes it's not always accurate.

vorlon 119 Reviews 552 reads
posted
17 / 19

Your best defense is a good reputation with the ladies you have seen.  It's similar to what happens when a well-reviewed lady gets a bad review; we tend to ignore it in the face of the many good ones.  I suggest you contact someone whom you have seen in the past and see them again.

jchan113 4 Reviews 504 reads
posted
18 / 19

Ah crap! You figured out it was humor. I don't put smiley faces on my posts.

wadzilla69 1 Reviews 512 reads
posted
19 / 19



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