Anyone have any luck with these services, or just a waste of money

For me, it is not worth the time and cash in the long run for one not so good experience.

that there are "hot women" just looking to "hook up" NSA. It would be nice, and it does happen on occasion, but usually not on-line or over-the-phone with someone you've never met. But the fantasy keeps these types of sites in business.

I spent a couple years with Adult Friend Finder and had a great time with some hot milf. It was less costly than the hobby, but to time consuming. For the cost of a room it was fun, fun, fun.  However, the time was not limited, so it was hard to get other things done.

Seeking Arrangement -- more of a sugar daddy site but I have had great success especially while traveling -- it sometimes can take a week or so to set up.  I have had an entire evening date dinner drinks and play and a whole lot of fun

I even set up with a couple ladies for weekend trips --