How long should a person wait before they contact the lady after she didn't respond when they had a scheduled date? The only thing I was grateful for used my head and didn't come into the metro till I heard from her. she is one of the newly reviewed girls but I think it was a little rude not to get back to me.

I'd say give her a call or send her an email now and politely ask what happened.

I am sorry to hear about your situation.

I was supposed to meet a lady in Miami today.

Absolutely no response (e-mail, text, or telephone) today.

She must have found something better to do today than earn 10 Benjamins from me!

In any event, I hope that she is at least safe and sound.

The best result of the situation is that I saved the donation to spend on another lady.  I am out a small amount for preparation expenses, but I believe the new lady is going to be a splendid replacement.

Note:  I used to hobby out of Minneapolis until moving to South Florida last last year.

I tried calling back yesterday to maybe see if we could get togther then. No answer again. Not trying to ruin the ladies buisiness, but that seems a little flaky. The lady was Jayden Lynn. I am still going to try and see her but also have a back up plan.

As I was told by someone far wiser to the highs and lows in the hobby:  "There isn't a Better Business Bureau we can turn to with any issues encountered in this endeavour."

Hobbyists must rely on posted and back-channel information to survive.

In my case, (prior to seeing the lady) I contacted all twelve of the reviewers for my provider.  Seven of these gentlemen responded; none indicated reliability issues.

In the short-time period since yesterday, (after informing them of the provider's no-show) I received four responses from these seven gentlemen stating surprise at the issue along with concern for the lady.

Unless this Jayden Lynn is a complete knock-out, offers an exceptional make-up offer, or offers something on her menu that you can't get somewhere else, I would just sweep her into the dustbin of your hobby history.

This is one tough business:  If she can't offer you a reasonable explanation, then you certainly don't owe her an attempt to make-up for the lost session.

In the short time I've been doing this I have experienced more than a couple of no call no show situations and a lot of unreturned emails and phone calls.

Providers are not always great business people just like other self employed persons. Fortunately there are a lot of them to choose from and some are very good at managing their business. The best tend to reveal themselves over time and others get better through experience...

write her off and move on...