Well, just had a look at the XXXXX XXXXX again.  MN and Ms MN had a lovely chat about a list they used to keep on a public forum on yahoo.  All personal info on really bad guy's (can understand that, only who determins who is on that).  The really bad part is if they consider you to stay past your welcome, or other problems they think its ok to post your phone #, first name and/or your e-mail adress. Even though I have been on here for a long time now (mostly as a lurker) I really am not comfortable with this.  Did't Miss MN get baned from here for shareing personal info on the public boards?  If it was not her, I do appolagize.  I just seem to remember something about that awhile ago.

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Oops, the lady I was think of was Madison, not Ms MN.  Madison, I apolagize for bringing your name into this where it does not belong.

Of course escorts are going to share information on bad clients.  If a client beats up or rips off or habitually no-shows, escorts are going to warn others off.  

I have never seen that type of info posted on a public board, but of course escorts communicate with each other.  

Not really unusual or a big deal.  

Be nice, see reputable, stable girls and all will be fine.

We have reviews of the ladies.  This is very valuable information for all of us in the hobby.

Why would it be a supprise that they have a review section for us customers.  If you think about it the ladies have a lot to loose if they meet a bad client some night.  
Also if a lady has a bad experience with a customer she may leave the business, and we clients have one less option for entertainment.

She did say that only contact information on BAD clients wad been posted, so I would not worry unless you were a no show or something that would put you on the list.

I am a little curious if anything has been posted about me.  But I'm not worried about it.

The reviews are available to ANY paid member, which allows the ladies the option of seeing what is being written about them - whereas these "black lists" are semi-private and exclude men from seeing what is "on file" regarding them, their behavior and their contact info.
 Furthermore, Women have the option of having their reviews removed - what recourse do the gents have if some crazy lady with a bad attitude "blacklists" him - from that point on, any new to the area or visiting ladies will see his info and exclude him when screening and he forever misses out - with on course of action to challenge the report.
  Also, almost all ladies work under an alias, and most men  fall for the "I need to verify you" line and give up their true identity when setting a date! If women are posting about men that are "bad clients" in their opinion, how do they communicate WHO these men are except by their TRUE identities??  You know they don't use our board handles when speaking amoungst themselves about us! They call use by our REAL NAMES!! - this is proven by the fact that "the board community" only represents a tiny percentage of men in this town that hobby! How are the rest of the "bad clients" tracked? The ones that DON'T HAVE HANDLES??
 So I recomend we don't fall for the "piss and whine" routine of "why can't we have a list if the men have reviews of us?" -- This is the fundamental problem with "equality" (ie; equal rights, equal access, equal pay, equal respect, ect, ect......) Is the "underdog" usually doen't give up the fight until they are WAY MORE EQUAL then their opponent - then the  cycle starts over..........

Playing in this hobby will always have a level of risk.  We all measure the risk against the reward every time we play.

I can't blame them! They run a great risk should they end up with a crazy and for their protection they need to exchange information! Act like a gentleman and there is a good chance you will never have a problem. Happy hobbying!

Here is another point about reviews.  Don't most of the upstanding ladies with good reputations use them for advertising purposes?  You can usually link to their reviews from their websites.

I agree BD.  I have heard there is a back channel board with simialr characteristics. They do use real names, phone numbers and other personal information.

So if you ever piss off one of these ladies, you have no recourse and your personal information if available to hundreds of ladies...not a fair playing field is it?

As I have always said information is good but in the wrong hands creates many problems!  There is NO reason to keep or hang on to information once the clinet has been verified