I have been watching the boards, and keeping abreast on the somewhat free flowing information.
As with any message board, there are characters, personalities, and opinions.
Then there typically is, rumor, lies, sex, Truth and Fact.
To each and every individual who bothers to read any post, on any particular time / day.
That individual has to chose to read the post, to gain any worthwhile information, And also has to take into account, the creditability of each and every post and reply.
It also is advisable, that each individual, determines, which post to read, and if the need arises, to reply to the OP or to another reply., or start a new post.
So I can see that some folks are thinking, yeah, yeah, so get to the point !
The point has already has been written, If you don't like what someone is saying, you can chose to either ignore the post or replies, and move on to the next, Or you can render your 2 cents.
However, if you chose to render your two cents, keep in mind this one thing, Of those who chose to reply, accusing a particular OP, or author of a reply, of conduct, such as a wise ass, Negative, trouble maker, outspoken, making slander, and the list goes on, Keep in mind, the moment that you chose to respond, You became part of what you feel or think of, As part of the problem, part of the innuendo, part of making slanderous statements, bending the truth, mis stating the facts.
So who the hell is right ? and who is wrong ?
As with real life, there is those on the extreme right, those on the extreme left, those that are moderately right or left, and then those who are in the center, in how we perceive, feel, think, and so on, Personalities speaking, from those positions.
If we all thought the same, had the very same opinions, preferred sex act all the same, then there
would not be much use for this board ?
I mean, if same or similar thoughts were a constant, then everyone who frequents this board, would all have the same opinions, Right ?
Could you imagine how the reviews would be written ? pretty much all the same.
Who am I ? Well I have been around since the beginning of this board, and at one time, was a major contributor, making frequent posts, sharing point man reports, mini reviews, and dispensing with fair and accurate information, on my experiences with those providers that I had visited.
While I did give a thumbs up to select providers, they had earned the high marks, however, as with life, just because the were A list at one time, there was always the possibility that they may fall from grace, due to greed, stupidity, a change in circumstances, personal issues, Mental health issues and so on. Or the game they played was discovered, and they were outed to the community,
if the game was hurtful to others.
Just as certain hobbyists have stepped over the boundaries, and have been challenged, or called out, or outed.
This board is important for those reasons, to help get the word out, of a dangerous client, or a BSC provider. It helps the community, to do self policing, I know we dislike the word " Policing" but it is also what we do.
Some recent board activity, has involved some members, alerting the community, of some shady dealings going on. Yet there are those who have attacked those posters. Again who is right ? and who is wrong ? and what is the problem ? and who is part of the problem ?
In summary, it is good to have conflict, in order to keep a proper check and balance. So for each
positive, there is a negative, just like the two sides to every coin.
Just as important, it is important, to have positive posters, to help keep the balance.
So if there is a balance, then there is No problem. Just all of the above. and that my friends, is Life.
If you don't have a thought, an opinion, a stance, or a personality, then what are you ? Dead ?
Or you have a life, but you are not part of this particular lifestyle.
Have a Wonderful day Everyone !
