I've been canceled on again... SO, I'm watching Trevor Noah's "African American" stand-up on Netflix.

Who would cancel on the incredible Trinity Lake?  They should be flogged for their disrespect!

Posted By: TrinityLake

I've been canceled on again... SO, I'm watching Trevor Noah's "African American" stand-up on Netflix.  
   
 Funny as hell!  
   
   
 TL  
   
 "Laughter is a Hazard to your SICKNESS" -author unknown to me, but it is not my own.

How rude to cancel on Trinity.  I have been wanting to see you for some time.  You should have contacted me.  Until then

I've had the same experience in recent days. "sigh" I know the holiday season can get hectic & unpredictable. Not to mention, although there are many pleasantries to be had, it also can get quite stressful. I've found over the years that while in the throes of stress & frustration gents will without forethought schedule visits that end up unaccomplishable. (I Don't think that's a real word. Lol!)

It is a challenging time for all those who don't get PTO and Holiday pay.  If I don't laugh, I'll cry sometimes.  But most times, I'm just grateful  

After pondering my comment further, i realized i was probably premature, (first time in years), in assuming said client did something wrong.  As was mentioned a couple of weeks ago, tis the season of colds and flu.  Maybe said client did a favor in canceling.  Maybe he just didn't have enough Nyquil to share.

Let's not use the term "premature" on this here board unless it's a medical question ok there pal?

There are no excuses.   Said jerkoff should have never scheduled with you if he couldn't make it, no excuses!

Listen pal!  Maybe you have said medical issue and you're just afraid yo admit it!

There should be no excuses for the ladies as well. Both parties have other lives, family emergencies, etc. Goose and Gander, right!

Ya know what big boy.  If you scheduled with two ladies as incredible as Trinity Lake, the best that you could probably do is sit in the corner and watch so maybe you shouldn't even bother trying to schedule.

I tried that!  They wouldn't let me just watch!  (All three of them!),  But I regret nothing!  I'd do it again!

Can't argue that.  Respect goes both ways.  I mean I could see coming down with something, or having a last minute emergency,  but there's no indication that that is what happened here.

Since there's no indication as you said and we've only heard one side of the story, we really don't know if he was a dick. Chances are he could be, just as the ladies could be the female version of a dick lol when they do the same.

I had to cancel one time when I got sick.  But I let her know immediately and she was most gracious and understanding.  I booked with her later and had a wonderful time.  

Why do we (at least in my case lol) fall for those irresponsible ones. We try to help them but...immaturity, drugs, financial issues, whatever.

Guys do have real life unexpectedly get in the way just as providers do.

Trinity,  
Sorry you got cancelled on.
I had to cancel last week when I was getting set to leave house and found wife had inadvertently taken keys.
First time with a new person.  She had taken a hotel room.
Called her and said I would make it all good.
She was naturally gracious (who wouldn't with that offer?)
We rescheduled, had a great time. Paid her double. But it will even out over more appointments.
From now on this is my procedure.  I know you lose a great deal with these.
Happy holidays.
S

I would think cancelling is always better than no call no show.

Who in their right mind would stand you up hun? You are one seriously fun lady.