a very long time ago i saw her.  must have been five years ago, and she was living near me so i took a chance.  i backed out once i saw her place.  i know it is rude, but she was not what she described over the phone, and the place was a mess.  she also had her "roommate" asleep in the room next to hers, so "we had to be quiet." told her not thanks, and took off.  ohh, she also needed me to stop and pick up covers on the way.  i was too young to know any better.  now i would have said forget it.