Minnesota

At least for now
JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 588 reads
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Concentrate on finding another wonderful provider, there are some GREAT ones here in Minnesota.

If you wait a few months you can try the other gal, she may have retired, be taking a break, having real life problems or just ignoring you. You may never find out.

Good luck!

So I had a couple really great sessions with a wonderful provider last summer/fall and I would say she was my new ATF.  I certainly felt like she enjoyed it as well as we had a great rapport via email/text too.  We tried to schedule another session and the day of she cancelled just basically saying she couldn't do it that day and she was sorry.  I said its ok when can we reschedule?  I never heard back and I have sent a number of emails over the past couple months with no response.  

I don't think I did anything to make her upset but I guess it's possible.  I probably should just move on but I guess it's the not knowing that bugs me.  At first I thought maybe she was taking a break or hadn't gotten around to my emails but she is active on p411, and i have sent enough, so I don't think that's the case.  

Should I just move on?  

Oh I don't have VIP so please don't pm me...

Oh, sorry it was not during a session.

Concentrate on finding another wonderful provider, there are some GREAT ones here in Minnesota.

If you wait a few months you can try the other gal, she may have retired, be taking a break, having real life problems or just ignoring you. You may never find out.

Good luck!

She may have a reason that has nothing to do with you.  
Just see someone else and maybe try to connect with her another time.  

If she seems to avoid you again, then it's time to find another ATF.

She's had plenty of time and opportunity to respond and has chosen not to.  Time to move on and see other people.

Your best option is to move on to someone else. You can try again in a few months if still nothing, let her go

I can't speak for everyone, but I have had some problems recently with both my p411 emails & gmail messages getting sent into spam automatically. Had it not been for a friend that I had met with previously calling me & letting me know he had been trying to contact me for over a week, I would have had no idea. I'd say, give her a call or shoot her a text reminding her of who you are, that you have met, and that you've been trying to get in touch with her via email and just wanted to touch base in case she hadn't received them. I would also include that you don't want to be a bother & do not want to make her feel like you're harassing her, you really enjoyed your time together & that if you do not hear back from her, that you will no longer try to contact her & no hard feelings.

If you don't hear from her, I would def give up on the idea of hanging out with her. There are plenty of us other ladies that do appreciate our return friends (as well as new) & I'm sure would love to meet with you. Hope this helps & have a great rest of your night.

Xoxo-Dani

It's tough, but yes, you should move on. I've had a similar experience, and there's really nothing productive you can do if the lady decides not to communicate with you anymore.

The good news is that, given time, you can find a new ATF.

I would threaten to out her with specific information, hang around her incall for hours, follow her around and be unable to concentrate on anything else. You know, the usual. (just kidding......I would think about eating at some point)  

Seriously, I always wonder how providers deal with the break up with the stalker risk being so high.  

Posted By: mdfmdf2
So I had a couple really great sessions with a wonderful provider last summer/fall and I would say she was my new ATF.  I certainly felt like she enjoyed it as well as we had a great rapport via email/text too.  We tried to schedule another session and the day of she cancelled just basically saying she couldn't do it that day and she was sorry.  I said its ok when can we reschedule?  I never heard back and I have sent a number of emails over the past couple months with no response.    
   
 I don't think I did anything to make her upset but I guess it's possible.  I probably should just move on but I guess it's the not knowing that bugs me.  At first I thought maybe she was taking a break or hadn't gotten around to my emails but she is active on p411, and i have sent enough, so I don't think that's the case.    
   
 Should I just move on?    
   
 Oh I don't have VIP so please don't pm me....  
   
 

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