Please help me out.  I don't get out much.  I saw a provider today who was well reviewed as a massage provider, not an escort.  Correct me if I am wrong but my understanding is that a "massage provider"  does not provide "full service" , meaning that "it" doesn't happen.  I believe that "massage" means something less than "it".  I made the long trip to the cities today for an "escort" provider.  She didn't pick up and I reluctantly called a provider who had good reviews, but only as a massage provider.  

The session went very well.  As the session went on it seems that the rules became relaxed.  I reciprocated with a massage (I'm quite good).  When I asked if I could "go downtown" she hesitated a little and then said "a little".  Apparently I did OK because a little became a lot and a good time was had by all.  As the "happy ending" progressed I rather clumsily asked if we could progress to "something more".  She hesitated a second and then jumped to her feet and assumed an acceptable position.

My question pertains to reviews.  If you choose to relax your rules for a special client do you want the client to include these details in their review or would you rather they keep them to themselves?

Sometimes a provider offers more than what she usually does to some clients.  If you put it in a review then everyone who reads it then anyone who reads the review and goes to see her will likely want it as well.  That would be unpleasant for her to deal with and she won't be happy with you either.

If I plan to post a review I always ask if they first want reviews, and if so what they want me to include/exclude.

Other guys come to expect the same and when they don't get it, they may feel frustrated or even cheated.  
The consequence is a bad time for him  and a bad review for her.

I agree.  I don't do many reviews.  I always ask her if she would like a review and if she would like any details witheld.  I appreciate the "extras" and don't want to rock that boat.