I know that guys sometimes request a lady wear a certain outfit, piece of clothing or lack there of.
But have you guys ever been asked to dress down or wear business casual for a visit?
The reason for my question. I had a guy come in for a massage & waxing session last week & he wore black slacks/dickies & a white t. Not sure why but I was turned on by his choice of clothing. I've had other guys come in dressed similiar, but have not had that reaction before.
So he came back this week & was dressed diffently, jeans & polo. Didnt have the same reaction like his first visit.  Wondering if he might have reminded me of an ex (no he doesnt look like anyone i've dated before) or it coulda been I was just horny that day.
Anyhoo, he said he would be back in a few weeks & I want to ask him if he would wear his black slacks & white t.

Is it strange or nice to get an outfit request from a gal?
How would you like to be asked?

Sorry for the long read, just wanted to explain my question, thanks

Jae