I'm new to the hobby amd have ywt to see a provider. I am a family man so as you can imagine, I am quite nervous about scheduling anything. I have been researching and reading reviews for yhe past couple weeks and found one that seems like she might be TGTBT. Her rates seems pretty low, but I assume that's before the up sells.  
Here is her like to back page....she doesnt have any info on TER. http://minneapolis.backpage.com/BodyRubs/i-love-what-i-do-so-will-you-21/11038529
If you have any suggestions for a first timer I would appreciate it.  
Thank

all your guesses are correct, which is not to say you won't have a good time, but it don't expect slow or gentle or unique or epic romance for that matter.  I think I might begin somewhere else.

I understand your concerns, which is why you really ought to go with a well reviewed provider who doesn't have upsells but known rates for various services. I know when you first get into this some rates seem high, but higher rates TER-level rates usually get you better experiences - not because they're higher but because the ladies are more reliable and, well, better. If it looks TGTBT it probably is.

We all went thru this, the approach-avoidance conflict. I would start with someone like Erin Lee,
she is reliable, beautiful, and available. PM if you want more ideas. There are great massage girls out there too.