Studies have shown that women who have a few extra pounds live longer than those who criticize them.

And women who are comfortable with themselves and their bodies probably live longer still.

That we basically qualify as a sponge on the squishiness scale!

You are so beautiful to me, you are so beautiful to me can't you seeeee. ( imagine joe Cocker singing to you )

women who have a few extra pounds live longer than those who criticize them "to their face"

There was a young guy this morning in the coffee shop I frequent making some mouth covered comments about how "fat" people are lazy & that "normal" people shouldn't be more than such n such size.  
 Me being the only person in there that wasn't a size 3, it was pretty obvious what's going on.
Well, not only did I out run him to the bus as it was leaving, Poor fella was gasping for air and fell down due to the floor being wet from the rain couldn't even catch his breath enough to get up .
As I helped him upright with one hand I said with a smile "good thing I'm not lazy,  who'd help you now if I wasn't here ? Not even a thanks ...
Yep, people need to hush up when it comes to who's unhealthy or lazy on account of their sizes because we really don't always know .
Xo- V.

Squishy feels OH SO MUCH BETTER than bony :

Most definitely in fact I prefer my men to be squishy!

Posted By: jv38

Squishy feels OH SO MUCH BETTER than bony  
   
 

I agree I like squishy there fun to cuddle with

And this was my response to a recent review that fairly mentioned that I didn't look EXACTLY like my pics.  Well, last summer, I was more toned.  Winter hit.  I drank.  I ate.  Now, I'm squishy.  I use that word simply because it makes me laugh.

Don't ever lose your humanity Trin, it's one of your most endearing qualities.

He didn't say you were squishy just that he likes super tight girls (probably stick figures), but I would love to see you one of these weeks.

....I am obligated by truthfulness to say.... You Trin are radiant in body, mind and spirit (hot as hell too!!)  Time spent with you is filled with bliss!!

I didn't mean any harm or not was my review meant to be malicious in any way.  I thoroughly enjoyed my hour with you and hope I conveyed that in my review.  The fact is this is a review website, where people give their experiences to help others have a better idea of what kind of experience they will have.  

There is no need to apologize for your review. It was your opinion and you are welcome and should express it in your review. It would appear it hit a nerve so I'm guessing she brought it here to garner support or sympathy.  All reviews should reflect the honest opinion of the reviewer, not the picture the provider wishes to present.  Thank you for giving your honest opinion.

To go to an provider whose age and body type is fairly described and say you prefer them younger or of a different type is not a review--it is a poor choice and review behavior on your part.  
The livelihood of women are affected by reviews. Your scores and review were unfair because they simply reflect a choice to see someone who is outside your preference profile.  

You could not have been any more polite in your review.  I realize we are a dying breed on this board but honesty is still appreciated by some.  It's scary slow for them right now so they have extra time to lament any review that doesn't paint them as total perfection in every way

Nope!  I think I'm great just as I am.  Really.  If I were more flexible, I'd never leave my house :P

from the OP's clarifying second post:
  "And this was my response to a recent review that fairly mentioned that I didn't look EXACTLY like my pics.  Well, last summer, I was more toned.  Winter hit.  I drank.  I ate.  Now, I'm squishy.  I use that word simply because it makes me laugh."

And that goes both ways.  I would like people who are really into tight women to know that.  I am gonna post an ad that just includes a selfie that is taken that day.

It didn't hit a nerve so much as I wanted to draw attention to it.  Sorry it may have come across that way.  Perhaps it's because so many women would be offended.  I gained about 10lbs this winter, and I really would rather people know that.

It is every bit fair to give an honest opinion!  I have a zillion other reviews from very happy people.  I also have a list of beautiful tight women who I would recommend.  His review just might help eliminate others who would see me and be disappointed based on looks.

A good honest review based on your perception without being cruel, you have shown it can be done.

here are way too many reviews for girls that rant and rave for how hot and perfect they are. A few have popped up recently of girls I have seen and I swear some of these guys have never seen a girl in there life where the first one they see naked is the hottest thing in the world. Perfect and 10s are used way much in reviews and it guvs the readers a false look at what they actually are. These guys who think every girl is the hottest thing they have ever seen just aren't realistic to most guys out there and it just gets our hopes up

Reviews are not intended to be always filled with nothing but praise.  They should be an accurate portrayal of what happened and there is no reason to think that is not the case here.  The review was by no means a bad reviews and those of us who have been around a while are capable of figuring out when a bad review has more to do with the reviewer than the provider.  I've seen many a quality provider get sub-standard reviews over the years and seen them continue to do just fine.  Why?  Because they are quality providers and we know better than to take the occasional outlier as being more valuable than the bulk of the reviews.  Providers are not made of paper and won't crumble at the slightest hint of adversity; even I know this business is far too tough for people like that to be successful.

Squishy providers unite! You know, it's funny, maybe I don't get the volume of clients skinny providers get, but once someone comes to see they are HOOKED. It's not just about whether you're "model pretty" I give a GREAT experience, my curves feel GOOD to touch and all my clients know they'll be treated like the only man in the world when they come to see me

Yup, that's frustrating, it's always "well, I'm not really into curvy women.." then don't go silly!