what is the big deal? I dont like them older either and I dont have to make excuses. if I dont like chinese food for example. why should I eat it?
-- Modified on 7/12/2005 1:26:10 PM
Here's a PM I recently recieved from a "mature" provider, in response to a little read post I made about a week ago(see link). I did a cut and paste excerpt from my mailbox, it reads as follows:
"Dear Sir,
Minneapolis was never MY first choice to visit. However, you may be surprised to know that not ALL men want to see their daughters,,oops, younger girls. The reason I am visiting is because I have been ASKED to, many times. If you've never seen a mature provider you have no clue why others want to.
Your post was unnecessary and insulting."
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Now I think it's fine she chose to respond to my recent remarks, and infact I agree that my remarks were a bit insensitive, (not to say I'm rescinding my remarks) I wish she would have simply posted her response under mine on the board, rather than griping in my mail box.
Anyway, it seemed like a good springboard for a new topic - I'm going to call it "Myth busting the mature market"
I have noticed different discussions here and on the national board from time to time about milfs, gilfs, mature, experenced, ect. about how great they are, and how they rocked everyones world, but rarely do I hear much cheering for the "fresh and yummy" new girls to the hobby. This is where I get my kicks! I enjoy the "akward nervousness", and the "new car smell" that comes from girls that have been at it only a short time, I have had what I consider the "extreme good fortune" on a few occations to be the first customer on a girls first day out, and on many occations to see girls in their first week in the biz. Even though these have never been the most "rock my world" sexual experences I've ever had - They are by far my favorites! for some reason, there is a certain "intrinsic value" in it for me!
To further extend the error in her reply, I don't choose young girls out of "not knowing what I'm missing" as she assumed, (I can however understand the assumption, being I have only 9 reviews and all the girls in them are 18 to 20yrs) But in fact, I have played this game at many levels, for many years, I have had experences in just about every price, age, height, weight, and ethnicity range that is in the marketplace and have "discovered" my fetishes but trial and error.
I think enough positive attention has been given to the mature provider on this board for a while, lets talk about newbies. We usually only talk about the bad business practices, scams and frustrating experences. Let's talk about the great fun these fresh young girls can be!
(I know I'm as guilty as anyone for only posting the bad times, warnings, ripoffs, ect. - But when I think back over time, I have had way more good than bad from the "young and willing" - I just tend to not talk about the good as much)
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BD While I like the young and hard bodied perky chests, they sometimes lack the Full GFE sessions that a lady in the age ranege of 27 - 40 can provide. Too many times have I seen a young lady that is more concerned about the money and not concerned about if you will be back for a second visit.
It is the old Customer vs Client mentality. Obviously we all have different tastes and know what age, type of lady works best to suit our needs. Who are any of us to say that young works better than old or vice versa?
There are many types of ladies to suite all needs for everyone.....Hobby On!
I think putting providers in one of two categories as your post suggests is an oversimplification.
First, we all have our preferences. Second age and experience go hand in hand. Third, its very understandable that as you go up in age, you weed out those who were in it only for the quick money. Those who have continued into their late twenties and thirties, and beyond, are those who are more likely the true self-employed professionals who actually enjoy what they are doing, which translates to more of what we call a true GFE, PSE, or other specialities. Some realize this earlier than others - local Alex is an example of a young lady who is mature beyond her years when it comes to appearance, attitude, and service. Then there is Pamela and Missy, travelers from South Florida, who are youngish but mature, in their late 20's or 30's who still have the looks and bodies of a school girl. And then there is the more mature, matronly type in their late 30s and 40's, who may surprise you with a trick or two that makes the difference.
All that said, with a bit of homework on this board, you can find the jewels of any age group, while recognizing the advantages of those with more experience, and disadvantages of those without. Is simply a tradeoff of what is important. If I want to fulfill my fantasy of school days past then a young nubile nymph may be as good as the Mrs Robinson fantasy I have tomorrow.
I replied to you privately. Not because I was afraid that someone would view my opinion about YOUR comment about my post. Now those who did the search know it's me anyway.I did it as a courtesy to YOU. I wondered why you didn't extend the courtesy to reply back to me PRIVATELY. Now I understand why. Some people just have to be right.
It's the same old line. YMMV. You like them young. Some like them older. Some like us mature gals. You're not wrong and neither are they. However, I feel your post still borders on insulting and I'll say it HERE. I'm not known to mince words nationally and I have a measure of appreciation for doing so. I'm still coming to Minneapolis.There ARE folks who want to see me. Did you ever hear the description, delicious? Well, that applies to port wine as well as beaujalois nouveau.
The difference is the young good looking hardbody thinks you're getting all this and you want good service and effort also for the same donation, are you crazy? With mature and experienced providers this is not the case!
Have a great time in MPLS!
-- Modified on 10/6/2005 9:39:46 AM
...there's LOTS OF IT to enjoy. Which I do.
It took me several trys to get my post approved, so you are reading the "watered down" version. Likwise I would love to take you to task(and the frends you "imported" to our board to show you support), but I there is a tight leash on my tongue on this board, and it would never be posted anyway, so why should you bother!
Further more, I chose to reply in the public forum, because that is where the discussion started, I extended YOU the "courtesy" of NOT taking a dump in your private mailbox. I consider the PM to be for exchanges between friends - not "blah, blah, you insulted me, blah, blah"
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Ben-Dover - not very gentleman-like to post part of a private correspondance in a public forum.
Ben,
I have great respect for you. I have had mind blowing experiences across all age, price, and looks spectrums. During my one experience with a true newbie, she was so worried about me being a cop it ruined everything. She kept stopping during the action to ask me if I was a cop!
My worst experiences have been with the super model types who act like they are doing you a favor by taking their clothes off, then try to upsell everything. I've found more average looking girls to work a little harder. Give me attitude over looks anyday.
I know you like them young and small. In one review you comment on being able to feel the pelvic bones. To each his own. That's why there's a wide variety available.
I'd always heard that the men of Minneapolis were gentlemen and now I know it's almost 100% true. I truly appreciate your kind words here and to those of you who have PM'd or emailed me, I thank you. I know it's going to be a fantastic first tour of your beautiful city.
Smiles and Hot Kisses Waiting,
Anneke
what is the big deal? I dont like them older either and I dont have to make excuses. if I dont like chinese food for example. why should I eat it?
-- Modified on 7/12/2005 1:26:10 PM
The big deal was the way how know who went about it. As my webmaster says...there's an ass for every seat. I have preferences too love so I'm not offended if someone isn't turned on by my mature charms. It was just the way he handled his comments etc. Folks wrote to me because they were embarassed by that. He's entitled to see whoever rings his chimes, just as you are.
Happy Hobbying,
Anneke
I for one can't wait for Anneke to get here and to confirm for her our gentlemanliness. You can't get here soon enough baby.