So, I apologize if this is not what this board is for. I really don't know where to ask this...
I can not cum from head. No matter how hard the girl tries, it just can't happen. I enjoy it and can stay hard. I've even been asked if I am going to cum, like they want me to. I feel terrible when I say no. I really don't think the girl is the problem? I mean, I'm not going to say I have had tons of BJs. I likely wouldn't be on here if I was some "legendary stickman", let's be honest.
It just feels so... Empty? Plain?
I never know what to do. I know some girls don't want to be touched (I've been told this). So, I am just sitting or laying there.. well.. bored. Maybe it's my ADHD? I just need to be a part of it somehow, or it just does nothing for me. I won't lie, I tend to enjoy foreplay and sex more when it is a little more, "feral" or "aggressive".
So, what do I do? Just be forward and say you can give one, but nothing will happen? I sometimes have to fake my enjoyment. This is a problem for me because when it's all said and done, a lot of times I feel like I went to a movie I was really excited for, and didn't meet the expectations. Part of that is me, but I never feel like I am giving it my all. I am holding myself back. I don't want to do something the woman does not like. Respect is still very important to me, and doing something not wanted or disliked with control or touch could really ruin the whole vibe.
So, here is my question.
What is the standard?
If any providers read this, what do you find acceptable?
Guys, what do you do?
Is there anyone one you feel is amazing and recommend?
